I have a real problem with oral sex, i get really uncomfortable performing it, iv told my boyfriend this and he says that its ok... Iv told him that because i dont, he doesnt have to perform it either, but he tells me he likes too. Is this unfair and should i try to make it up in some other way? im very open to new things... so our sex life isnt boring but i feel bad that i wont do this for him when its not such a big deal... i just cant...
2007-03-01 13:19:25 · 1 answers · asked by the_sky_is_my_sanctuary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a common enough thing to happen. Yea you can always make up for it in other ways. Be more physical with your hands instead. Its really the intimacy of it that makes it so darn good. So if you can get it going well with hands it can be just as powerful. The best thing to say is don't feel bad about it and use that negative energy to help motivate you thru the other things you do. If this is a deal breaker with any of your men then you got a good check in place that there not really worth your time. Granted that your able to be forth coming in other areas. Besides given time and trust you might learn to get past that sort of thing with the right man. It depends a little on your reasoning behind it. Ether way its common and it shouldn't get in the way of having a great time, might want to let him have his fun thou and don't feel guilty about it. You'll have something else for him.
2007-03-05 06:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋