its like ive boxd off those feelings or emotions i culdnt deal wiv my feelings after my x left me.so i spose ive blankd out those feelings to the point of isolateing my self.could this be attributed to the condition of psycosis which i ave been told by the hospital crisis team i was suffering from or am suffering from.a kind of schitzprna i think it is.Could it be that causeing me to stay on my own and not ave those emotions in my life
2007-03-01 13:15:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Mental illness usually has many causes. Your genes and your environment both play a big role.
Some people are genetically predisposed to have mental illness. But they never become ill because emotionally supportive social environment protects them from such illness. But if and when that support of theirs breaks down and their lives become emotionally difficult, then they can and often do become mentally ill.
If you can find a lady who will be nice to you. Then this will probably help you get better. The only thing is that ladies quite often are not so nice to men. And if your relationship goes bad, then it can make your mental illness worse than it already is now.
2007-03-01 13:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, when someone rips the emotional rug out from under you, it seems perfectly natural to avoid that same pain for a while.
If you think it's been too long, then go talk to someone about re-entering the dating arena. But don't beat yourself up too much about it. Avoidance or shutting down is a natural human reaction to pain. Shutting out the pain, however, also shuts out the good. You might benefit from taking a risk and starting something new, let some light in and get on with your life.
Good luck!
2007-03-01 13:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive heard that certain types of relaxation therapies can open up blocked emotions, i have tried yoga and it helped massively with balancing my emotions. there r a lot of lonely people in this wrld - ive had my fair share of it - and the longer you r alone the more chances of happiness u r missing out on - kinnesiology is a great homeopathic therapy that could well free you off the feelings u have been having. I had lived a fairly reclusive life for many years and kinnesiology wrked for me - mayb try it ? good luk *
2007-03-01 13:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a change of scenery, especially the people you hang out with.
You have become a loner and must expand your horizons. Get out of the rut you put yourself into. No-one is going to do it for you. Start by treating yourself right. Eat well and excercise. No drugs, smoke or drink. Do something for yourself Man!
Start by going to a local English Class. You will meet someone there who you will like.
Good Luck
2007-03-01 13:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about the whys and where fores hun the fact is your no longer dealing with it alone and the docs know what their doing more than you to get you back on track whoooooohooooo babes only a matter of time now eh xxxx
2007-03-01 13:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the older you are the harder it is to recover from that kind of thing.
the best way to move on is to get out there and, if nothing else, find some friends to involve yourself with...
get moving, time is of the essence!!! why be lonely if you don't have to be.
don't make yourself out to be a martyr. it does nothing for you. it only makes you look foolish.
good luck!!!!!!!
2007-03-01 13:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you can get out of this is you go for therapy......it depends how bad you want to get better and get on with your life...if you want to be happy then go counselling/therapy....talk about your problems, once you find closure your mind and body will begin to heal itself and you will find that its easier to let others into your life...just hang out more with friends you dont have to jump into anything just be more and more social and after your conselling perhaps you could just DATE without any ties and that way you may just find wsomeone else who is more wonderful than your last partner....trust me by the time you get to this stage you will ber thinking' why did i put myself through so much!'
good luck sweety and i will pray for you to feel better soon!
2007-03-01 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years is definitely a long time to be with someone.
Maybe you are just having trust issues, because while you were with your ex your complete faith was in him/her. It's just harder for you to open up to somebody else...especially in a sensual situation, because you were in your comfort zone while with your ex...now you have to start all over again.
Take your time...you'll eventually find someone for you.
2007-03-01 13:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by d_miano81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression. Have you consulted a therapist or psychologist about this. If not, you should consider that option.
2007-03-01 13:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by mop-27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need help and not in a bad way. just to get your emotions out
2007-03-01 13:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by Laura J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋