My Girlfriend and me have been going out since mid '06
how do i know when my girl wants sex, like is there any sign i can check for....or how should i take this situation.......
i'm 23 and my love is 21
is there any possible ways of telling her emotions?
2007-03-01 12:50:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she showing signs of wanting more than what you are giving her you should just do it. She will probably start acting a little different, and you need to look out if she starts touching you or looking at you different. I need more information to tell you any more, but if you don't want to give me any more then that's fine too.
♥ Smiley♥
2007-03-01 12:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by ineedu2luveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to resolve your problem is for you two to sit down in private and talk about it. Tell her something like "I feel secure enough in our relationship and I was hoping you do too that we might be able to express our love in a more passionate way."
Just be honest with your feelings and don't get mad if she says no and go find a hook up. Dude, I know it sucks being horny but if you love her, you'll just have to live with. I don't know her but I wonder is she a virgin? Perhaps she's nervous about that. And be proactive have a condom ready but don't show it to her or anything. Does she have a religion that looks down on premarital sex? I don't know your situation but how far do you get? 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base? The best thing is to just talk about it and see if she's ready. Sounds like she has concerns but is embarrassed to talk about them, which means you need to take the lead. Good luck!
2007-03-01 21:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by scienceguy888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U're 23, been dating her for 6-8 mons. & u still don't know when she wants to have sex??!! What planet r u from?? Her body language, & kisses should be the first clue, & if u can't read them, U'RE NOT READY FOR SEX!! Didn't u learn anything in HI-school? Go to the local library & find some books on sex & human sexuality. Check 'em out-go home-READ THEM! Good Luck honey, u're gonna need it!!
2007-03-01 21:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the time when you have to push her limits a little... when you guys are making out or whatever, try to take it a little further than you ever have before, and see what she does/says... but DO NOT do anything that's out of her comfort zone, if she's uncomfortable/tensed up, TALK to her and ask if whatever you're doing is okay or if she wants to wait. That's the main thing, you just have to ASK her what's okay and what's not, and let her know you're not in a hurry..
2007-03-01 20:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you are very good at it, and would come with much practice. Some of the evident signs would be she is rubbing up against things, making sexual facial expressions (biting or licking lips), or saying dirty things.
2007-03-01 20:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to just ask her before you guys start fooling around...make sure she's ready and it's not just a "heat of the moment" type situation.
2007-03-01 20:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make advances, find out. If she stops you, she's not in the mood. She's likely OFTEN waiting for you to make advances.
Don't fear the rejection, man.
2007-03-01 20:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Whiskeybone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she wet, surely shes not made of stone, make a move on her and she what happens
2007-03-01 21:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will let you know when she is ready by telling you she is ready. It's a woman thing no man can figure out.
2007-03-01 20:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is naked on her hands and knees, her tongue is hanging out, and she is gasping for breath? I don't know, but this sounds pretty close
2007-03-01 23:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋