I know this may sound really dumb and you are probably going to say I am thinking WAYY too much about this but it bothered me quite a lot. My boyfriend whom I just started going out with last week walked with 2 other girls home. I was at my locker getting my stuff and his locker is right next to mine so we normally just walk home together...but today he left quickly and I guess he walked with these 2 other girls, one being a girl who he went out with a year ago. I know he likes me a lot, but should I be bothered by this? How should I handle it?
2007-03-01 12:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I would be bothered, he's playing mind games!
2007-03-01 12:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya you should be bothered if he likes you alot he would have waited for you an walked home with you. That should be his excitetment at the wnd of the day is walking his grl home. He might just have stronger feelings for his ex girlfriend. Sorry to say! But it true. He wouldnt have walked with two other girls if he liked you that much! If you want to handle it sit down and talk to him, tell him that it bugs you that he didnt walk home with you and walked home with his ex girl. Explain how it would feel if it was the other way around. Ask him if he would like if you walked home with your ex and not him how he would feel. Tell him you trust him but you would like to know, hey im walking them home today!
2007-03-01 12:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course u should be bothered by this because i'd be bother by this to.......since his locker is next to yours you should talk to him before he trys to go quickly.... my boyfriend did the same thing and i talked to him and i told him that we promised to be honest and i know he's not being honest so if your suspicious then you should always be on him with walking with you and talking to you!
2007-03-01 12:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by i♥me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be bothered because intead of thinking of you he's thinking of himself and he walking home with his ex when he usually walks with you is a big NO NO I think you should talk to him about it if he still has feelings for this other girl
2007-03-01 12:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by Allison A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about it. Start by bringing it up as a joke. (Missed you last night, have fun without me?- lol kinda thing) If he gets offended, or tries to end the conversation quickly, that's a warning sign.
2007-03-01 12:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by ajc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be bothered, check it out.
2007-03-01 12:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be having a talk with him now, that was wrong, if he says something rude break up with him, he's a jerk for doing you like that
2007-03-01 12:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what he did see if he notices...sure he will and don't fuss just play it cool.
2007-03-01 12:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Y_aurora 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋