Okay here's the deal.
I never have had a boyfreind, and yet all of my friends who I know for a fact are not the best looking people [to put it simply] somehow snag all of the guys. I am shy, and intelligent. I write poetry like I breathe air. I am my own person and don't allow people to tell me what to do. I am in love wth my best guy friend, and I don't know what to do about it. To put it simple terms: I am confused.
I don't know why I haven't ever had a boyfriend. Personality-wise, I am great. But, what about beauty-wise? Please be honest. Also, how old do I appear to look? Many people say I look older than what I actually am.
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2007-03-01 11:27:32 · 26 answers · asked by Confused... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Also, how old do I look?
2007-03-01 11:27:51 · update #1
Not having a boyfriend has nothing to do with it. Believe me, tons of people don't have them. they're pointless- just status symbols. I think you're pretty! Maybe try a softer look, less eyeliner, maybe brown instead of black. but that's just my opinion. You are cute! I'd say you're 17,
2007-03-02 06:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I was kinda expecting some hot blonde just looking for compliments. That's not you, but you are pretty. You have pretty eyes and fabulous skin. I'd say you're about 15-17. You're confident and you know what you want and you're not going to settle when it comes to your first boyfriend (like some ugly people do because it's their only option). Your look is intense...your clothes and your hair and that might be a little scary to some guys. It's kinda saying, back off because I'm fiercely independent and a little jaded and don't believe in or want love. If that's not how you feel, try to communicate that a little more with how you dress and do your hair. My suggestion would be a little longer and a lighter shade. Easier on the eyeliner too! Or, stick to your guns and don't change and sooner or later you will find the right person who will like you just the way you are.
2007-03-01 11:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're highly adequate, you actually have classic effective aspects and also you probably did a sturdy job of choosing makeup. quite a few clues: you're saying you're shy you're saying you're smart you're saying you're you own individual you're saying you do not allow human beings inform you what to do. maximum human beings confuse shy as no longer having self-worth or self assurance. yet i trust, as human beings are stressed out distinct, some human beings merely don't have the neural connnections that make communique ordinary in social circumstances, nor information of non-verbal cues. we've a tendency to allow words be words and don't know they seem to be a minor component of the social dance. This defict in social information, has a tendency to make such human beings spend extra time attending to entice close, and a lot less time adapting to others. you're saying you do not allow human beings inform you what to do, perhaps they have giving you clues. Having a bf isn't the be all-do all. i'm positive you've considered the scumbags they have bagged and the heartbreak after. Take coronary heart, you have not made those mistakes. allow you maximum suitable guyfriend know. If he's your maximum suitable pal, he received't allow it replace the pal deliver. and do not trust that crap about i will lose my maximum suitable pal, in case you do not get alongside in a relationship, the friendship will be there at the same time as that is over. authentic pals understand. If he dosen't he wasn't a pal contained in the first position. try, have exciting. stay, love, giggle many times. Oh yea, there is two varieties of humor, nonsense, and incongruity (which is called "dry" humor). maximum human beings giggle on the former, and do not realize the latter. i will wager, you merely like the latter.
2016-10-17 09:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fishing for compliments? Girl you are a beautiful. Nice body, beautiful eyes, and a personality? That's a fantastic combination. My guess is you don't make yourself emotionally available. That is common with people like us. Let's face is we are not extroverts and we are shy. So, in your case a guy has to work a little harder to catch you. I don't know if catch is the right term. Sorry, if I offended. I guess it goes to the hunter/ pursuer/ male thing. You know the guy traditioanally is the one bringing the flowers and asking the girl out. I'll have to think about that one. The guys in your age group are going after the less challenging girls. That's all.
As far as being in love with your best guy friend, that could be a good or a bad thing. What are his feelings towards you? Ask one of your friends to do some fishing to find out what he thinks about you. Not super direct. Just sort of fishing around. If it comes back that he may like you also, then start being a little more flirtatious with him. That's gonna be tough with you being shy. But, it is the only way you are gonna get his attention in a romantic way.
Just be careful, if you do go romantic girl friend/ boyfriend with him. If you to break up, you lost a friend. Just keep that in mind. Romance changes things. Besides, love is a pretty strong word. Make sure of your feelings before you commit yourself.
My definition of love is pretty biblical. Jesus sacrificed himself on the cross for us so that we may have salvation. That is love. Are you willing to sacrifice yourself and give yourself completelly to your friend?
I don't just mean sexually that is another topic. It may just be a strong attraction that the romantic in you is making you feel like it is love.
Age wise, you could be anywhere between 16 to your early twenties.
2007-03-01 11:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have really pretty eyes and I like the jet black hair! I think you look about 16, maybe the reason you haven't had a boyfriend yet is because you are shy. A lot of guys like shy girls, so just hang in there. I'm sure you'll find someone soon, but until then, don't worry about it, it's not a race, the more you look the better that final decision will be (marriage).
2007-03-01 11:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look about 15-16, and personally I think that you are very pretty! your slim, well shaped face, tallish? I think, its hard to tell on a photo about height. and you have very stikeing eyes, it was the first thing I noticed, and they say that the eyes are the gate way to the soul.
you look like a good person, I say if you feel the need to date go for it, if guys don't ask you out its probably that they are intimidated by you, brains and beauty, nothing makes a teenage boy more nervouse!
so I suggest talk to your best guy friend, ask him out , make a date the worst he can say is no, and I'm sure you can handle that even if it makes you nervouse.
You might just find that he was waiting for you to make the first move.
so suck it up and go out there and try breaking a few hearts! but if not just be yourself your lovely!
2007-03-01 11:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Yazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we looking at the same pictures? You're really pretty! And your eyes are stunning. Take some time to reread that. S-T-U-N-N-I-N-G. How's your self-confidence? You need to realize that you are a beautiful young woman and that no one should ever tell you otherwise. Here, this is one of my favorite bible verses:
"I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; that I know very well"(Psalm 139:14).
Did you catch that? Fearfully and wonderfully made. In Genesis, after God has created the world and everything in it, it says that he looked on it and said that it was good. God is saying that you are good. He doesn't settle for, oh...she looks fine. You look GOOD! Don't you see? If they don't want to date you...their loss. Which, I don't know why....you are so beautiful. Please, if there's one thing that you can do for me....never forget that! Goodluck,
-Megs-
P.S. You look like your age is anywhere between 14 and 16. :)
2007-03-01 11:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man your trippin your so beautiful. You shouldn't no problem getting a boyfriend.You must attend a school for the blind,i know I'll flirt with you every time i see you:) Oh,back to the last question, you look about 18 or 19. Your a cutie and your sexy:)
2007-03-01 11:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. It possibly is just not your time to have a boyfriend.we are not the boyfriend givers,When the right one comes along,you will be the only woman standing there.if i was to show you a photo of me,you would not believe i am 40.you are beautiful inside also,continue to build on the perfect person you are,some perfect person will find the beauty in you..DON"T GIVE UP!!!
2007-03-01 11:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to put yourself out there a bit more. If your shy practice flirting on anyone, it will come naturally.
I think your eyes, are beautiful ! play them up ! dont put that thick coat of eyeliner underneath, that just makes you look cat like. Try outline the whole eye, and add mascara :]
2007-03-01 11:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋