I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week of school.On the first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was really, which was true.He has since asked me out 2 other times.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both gotten and broken up w/ other people, but still have been drawn back to each other, but nothing has resulted as far as a true relationship.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.He's from Chicago & has a cocky attitude due to his parents' money and what he buys.He also drinks & smokes extensively. He tells me he likes me all the time & has even kissed & hugged me a lot.He says he has something to tell me about myself, but will not say what it is.He says that it is a good thing and that he will say it when the time comes. What could it be? He won't say but brings it up constantly Any Ideas???
2007-03-01 11:24:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't believe that you'r ein college, you sound like an emo junior high kid. check yourself and stay away from the freak~
2007-03-01 11:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by brit knee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a smooth bad-ashe! The kind that could maybe hookup with 20 different chicks in 1 year...and not because he is rico suave...but because you has been persistant and asked out maybe 200 chicks but has been rejected 90% of the time (20 for 200). You may just be one of the rejectors or one of those rejectors that eventually come around...nevertheless, whatever he has to say is irrelevant because i'm sure he just said that to add more "mystery" to himself...which is one thing most chicks love in a guy...you are no exception. Am i right? part of the problem in the beginning when you were talking to him in person and online was because he was revealing too much about himself...while this may help you get to know him better...it may also hurt because you also realize things you dont like about him...by being mysterious...this draws you into him more....thats my opnion.
2007-03-01 19:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by JJ C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run don't walk away from this guy that will probably be way more trouble than he is worth. Someone who drinks a whole lot is a sure sign of TROUBLE. Life is to short to be wasted on a guy who seems like he is a pro at playing games. Find someone who will leave the games and such on the monopoly board.
2007-03-01 19:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the dude is a wack job. Playing with your head. Wont tell you what it is because he hasn't figured it out yet. Trying The keep her interested in me by talking some b.s.. First thing he not all there...."He tells me he likes me all the time & has even kissed & hugged me a lot". Seems a bit obsesive. Has nevr even met you yet. Grown *** men that are right in the head dont act this way.
2007-03-01 19:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the time of day. Give yourself some class and don't make a stupid mistake. This guy drinks and smokes extenssively. Is that the type of man that you want to be the potential father of you children? In my opinion if a man isn't "marriage" material then he shouldn't be "going out" material either. Same goes for a man dating a woman. Sorry if I offended. However, it is my opinion. It sounds like he is just trying to score with you.
2007-03-01 19:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm just a downer, but it sounds like he is just being over dramatic. By his appearence, he seems really dark/deep, not always a bad thing. Maybe he just want to interest you into staying with him. They say if there is no mystery in a relationship, the girl often backs out. Or maybe he just wants to say a lot of nice things about you. Can he really surprise you about yourself? That would be hard.
2007-03-01 19:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Marshall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Well I'm only 16 but I'll anwser this the best I can. Well the big question is DO YOU LIKE HIM??? If you both like eachother than give it a try. I noticed you described his looks. It doesn't matter what he looks like on the outside what matters in on the inside. I hope that doesn't sound toooooo corny! Lol! Well anyways what will happen will happen. There is notin' you can do 'bout it. O gosh. I hope that doesn't sound corny either! Well hope I helped! C'ya
2007-03-01 19:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have both been in relationships between all this yet u say u don't want to be in a relationship....I get the feeling u r hung up on HIS appearance and what other ppl will think...either u want him or u don't....he won't keep asking u out....maybe hes hinting that he's in love with u?
2007-03-01 19:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by tigermoondog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like either he wants you and your attentions, or he's a spoiled brat who likes the attentionhe gets from you, hard to say!
2007-03-01 19:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Yazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes you, and probably wants to tell you how beautiful you are, or something...
who really cares....
The guy has issues and even though he maybe pretty nice and cool, he isnt really good relationship material.
You should just stay his good friend.
2007-03-01 19:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋