Awww, his friends sound like a bunch of idiots and jerks! Your band teacher should have reprimanded them, but that might have made it more of an issue.
The big point here is, he feels really bad and he wants you to feel better. Maybe this guy doesn't want to date you, but that should tell you something--you're a good person, and people care about you and want you to be happy. As for his friends, recognize that they are a very immature group of boys and need to be treated like bad little children--tolerated, and ignored. If they bring it up, just roll your eyes at them and tell them to grow up!
I hope this helps, feel better dear!
2007-03-01 11:18:47
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answered by kiddo 4
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believe it or not the same thing happened to me 15 years ago when i was i 6th grade. i was on the bus and a friend of my crush asked if i liked the guy and would i go out with him. i was sooo painfully shy at that time so i just shrugged and hoped they'd go away. then they said he wanted to go out with me. i looked back and he gave me an adorable smile...i said i would go out with him... it turned out that he and his friends were playing a joke. i was devastated - mortified. you need to do what i did. hold your head high, and don't let them see that it bothers you. like water off a ducks back as they say. if he wants to be your friend, fine otherwise, don't give him another thought. just because he doesn't like you, doesn't mean that you aren't a beautiful, unique, worthwhile person. please don't let this change who you are! these things happen, and it sucks, but you're young and life goes on. :) hang in there!
2007-03-01 19:27:15
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answered by Misty 3
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Ow Im sorry to hear that they played with your feelings. There are some jerks out there, believe me lve seen stupid guys like that. Its guys like them that give us a bad reputation, regarding girl's feelings. But l really don't know what to tell you to get over that. Don't let guys like them get the best of you, lm pretty sure you deserve much better. Time heals everything. Find another "victim" n_n
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-01 19:26:50
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answered by Anonymous
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This happened to me too this year, and I'm in 6th grade too.
After they told me it was a joke I told them that I went with him because I felt sorry for him.
He's hot and could get anyone, but they still all think that thats why I wne tout with him, even though I actually did like him.
Hope I helped.....somewhat.
:)
2007-03-01 19:21:03
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answered by ScenexQueen 2
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Just move on you should have know that when a guys friends are saying that he likes you he doesn't they are trying to make fun of him b/c how could he like a girl like you. you'll get over this guys are jerks but this guy seems nice just be his friend don't make any effort to be around him inless he wants you to be and don't takt any B.S.
2007-03-01 19:19:11
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answered by lil_chicababy03 1
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that sucks.. .even if he went out with u out of pity it might have turned to something else, he sounds like a nice guy
Anyway... science team... band? i see where this is all going....
2007-03-01 19:19:01
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answered by Anonymous
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try to make it like you dont care about them. dont let them see that your upset because that what they want .. and in time u will forget
2007-03-01 19:16:16
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answered by Anonymous
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tell them that you knew all along you were just going along to see how far they would take a stupid joke...reverse psychology...good luck ;) sorry
2007-03-01 19:16:08
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answered by The TrutH 3
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