...you're not that pretty? Or
would guys look at you if you're ugly? I'm not pretty, but I'm not hideously, "hey look at her, she's a freak of nature," either! lol! So I don't stand out in *that* way...
There have been a few guys now (and in the past) that I'm pretty sure are out of my league b/c, comparatively-speaking, I'm not as pretty as the Barbie-esque girls on my campus. I'm a unique sort of pretty (not blonde, double D's, but you get the pic: tan skin, tall, thin but have curves in the appropriate places...w/e)....and sometimes I get the vibe that some guys like me...but then they turn around and like 10 Sorority Barbie clones throw themselves at him...it's like 'cmon!!!! How do I compete?!
So considering the fact that these guys have so many options, why me? Why look at me?
2007-03-01 11:01:18 · 8 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I imagine, they are looking at you, because you arent a barbie, think about it, you have something unique that these barbie types will never have, individuality, and thats why when all is said and done, once they have finsihed playing their games with the barbie types, (because thats all it is is games) you be the one that they look at for a long term relationship. Be happy in that fact, you arent the one that is likely to have a ruined reputation.
2007-03-01 11:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that guys are as loyal as their options allow for the most part. Definitely the ones without any morals.
If you're hoping to date some Ken doll because you want a serious loving, faithful relationship. It ain't gonna happen. If you just want to have sex with one of these cute guys and that's it. It will happen even if the guy does have a girlfriend. Than you gotta ask yourself do I want a guy like that?
If you want a semi serious relationship than go after the nice guys the shy ones, the momma's boys. What they lack in social skills and coolness they will make up for in loyalty and friendship. You can find a guy you think is cute who fits this criteria and you'll be happier with him in the long run than some Justin Timberlake wannabe.
Oh and if you have Double D's it's not your imagination guys are looking at you.
2007-03-01 11:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by joshua f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to not just look them in the eyes but to capture there eyes, takes practice but everyone has different tastes, the trick is to somehow find the opportunity, and,yes the courage to generate an introduction and then, the opportunity comes to be you. Show your personality ask the questions where you're from where do you like to vacation, hobbies and share yours. Because the reality looks can get you a date but personality and who you are, are what builds relationships... and look in the mirror everyday and smile and say You look Marvelous.. oh ya and remember to smile especially when you make eye contact, people can even tell if you are smiling during a phone conversation.. try it
2007-03-01 11:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by mrcathome1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are not attracitive to what you consider to be pretty. They are attracitive to whatever you have. I personally dont like blondes and i like them to be shorter have a propotional body size to their boops. Too me, that is way better, but to tohers it can be tottaly the oppsite, so do not get discourage if you see other girls all over him, remeber that he might fidn you very attractive.
2007-03-01 11:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuor different. and You kno....those guys probably think you ARE pretty! You don't need to be a barbie girl to get a guy you want! Girl, be yourself, dont be like like them, im sure your better than you really think u r!
2007-03-01 11:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by primalterozi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine they look at you BECAUSE you're different. Way to not be a barbie! Keep it up!
2007-03-01 11:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by trillian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're better-looking than you think. Maybe there's something besides looks that attracts those guys. Maybe it's both, and more. Think about it.
2007-03-01 11:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends........
2007-03-01 11:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋