my boyfriend broke up with me today. please dont ask me why.. i still love him. i only want him in my life, those feelings will never go away im certain of it. i just feel so angry. like punching walls and kicking chairs.
please tell me something that will make me feel better, anything at all. something funny something sweet anything.. i need something.. :(
2007-03-01 10:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-01 11:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres something truthful, you will feel better in three days. I know it hurts, but we have all gone through that, and come out the other side to eventually meet someone who made that love seem only a step on the way to the man who will make you forget all about him. I am certain of that.You are stronger than you think you are and you don't have to give him the satisfaction of letting him think hes all that important to you by letting all your friends know how miserable you are. I don't know how old you are, but as an adult, I can tell you that I once realized no man is worth more than a three day drunk. And I don't drink. There is always another one down the road, so why break your heart over just one man without the consideration to at least tell you why?
Take a warm bubble bath and a day or two to feel sorry for yourself and then thats it, no more pity party, hes just not worth it, if he were, he'd still be there with you.
2007-03-01 19:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Statistically, you have many more loves to come. You many never forget this one and that's OK. It just doesn't feel good right now and that's OK too because you have to allow yourself to feel the bad feelings in order to get over it. Every relationship you go through is (I believe) meant to be in order to teach you something. Usually to learn about yourself, better yourself and your relation to others, figure out what you want and don't want. Then, all this molding prepares you and you'll be ready for the one that's gonna work. If you don't figure out what you're suppose to learn from it, then you'll likely repeat the cycle. Every break up will feel awful for a minute or awhile, but in time you'll realize when looking back that it made you a much stronger person. You'll be OK kid.
2007-03-01 19:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you, move on. You can do better.
In time, the feelings will go away. Until then, tonight, get a pint of Ben and Jerry's, a chick flick and throw yourself a little pity-party. Then tomorrow, go to the gym, put on an outfit that makes you feel sexy and know your life is better when you're not tied-down to a man!
2007-03-01 19:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by that married chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, do I understand that feeling! I know, I know... you want to hurt him because of what he did to you, but you still want to be with him to love him. Give yourself a few days to vent out, and try to get as much negative energy and emotion as you can out of your system. Then, you need to start gradually progressing to moving on from him. It is going to be hard, I do know, but it really will help you out. If he broke up with you, he's not smart enough to realize what a good thing he had... and he does not deserve the chance or opportunity to even consider getting it back. Go ahead and lean on your friends a little more than usual! Hang out, talk and have fun as you forget about what's-his-face. Really, girl, there are other guys out there who will know how to treat you better.
2007-03-01 19:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im gonna be honest woth 1st u sound ypung there r other guys out there 4u belive that i know it hurts n u still got love 4 him but will get over him n u will feel better but u should find out y he broke up with one thing i always hated is that n it has happen 2me when a man breaks with me n he dont tell me y i know that i should hear it even if it does hurt but if u been good 2him then u dont need him u can find some whos gonna treat u like a diamond bcuz thats what u r remember that :)
2007-03-01 19:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it sucks when that happens I have 2 teenage daughters and I watch them go through it and I feel so bad for them it makes me remember my single days. I know it feels like the pain will never go away but trust me it does. the last time my oldest went through this we went and rented a comedy and bought some ice cream and just ate, laughed and cried. Call a couple of friends and have a " It will be OK party". Hang in there girl you will make it.
2007-03-01 19:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by angie_lucas67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get mad at yourself it's nothing that you did. He is a creep and he will learn. That you are the one for him and he lost something worth keeping. Haven't you ever heard that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. And that is something that he will have to deal with. And don't get yourself angry over his mistake. There are probably alot of good guys that are out looking for someone like you. Trust me there are bigger and better fish in the sea. That will treat you like a lady should be treated and will love you. Like you need to be loved.
2007-03-01 19:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE STRONG GIRL...The only way you are going to feel better is to let him go. You can not make someone be with you. But, be done with him, too! Don't go back and forth with this guy. Women up and set boundaries and handle your business. The next time you see him smile, but, keep it moving.
2007-03-01 19:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im really sorry that happened, and i dont know what to say, when my best friend was dumped by her bf she felt that way too put we hung out with her, we took her to the mall to get her mind off of him, but if you cant i HATE running and i jsut ran for miles to get my mind off of him, or go to the gym, and punch things, but if it was a lame excuse of why he broke up with you i would move on, and forget about him, and if it was a lame excuse i would say i dont care about what you think anymore even if you dont mean it , and play hard to get, ALSO
YOU DONT NEED A MAN TO COMPLETE YOU, AND IF HE IS WILLING TO LET A NICE GAL LIKE YOU AWAY HE DOESNT DESERVE YOU :) good luck!
2007-03-01 19:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by sy♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a Best Friend, Sister or Brother? If your answer is yes, then it's time for a Pillow Fight.
This too will pass, head up young person
2007-03-01 19:08:29 · answer #11 · answered by Plain Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋