but she said later on we might can have a relationship but she wants to stay friends for a while.I dont know what to do because we are best friends.We talk to eachother alot over aim when we arent around eachother and it really hurts knowing that i cant have her.What should i do?
2007-03-01 10:56:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget her, move on and find someone else.. don;t get caught up on her games. just let her know you're interested and then let her see you with another chick... when she sees you with some good looking chick, she'll pursue you like you would not believe. then tell her to take a hike... play the game...
2007-03-01 11:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by canadians_are_imbeciles1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Dude. Don't wimp out. This is your chance to show her you are a man. If that is what she wants give it to her she will think more of you if you don't push her. I am in the same situation as you. I care a lot about her but she needs her room to know how she feels. Back off and be the friend you have always been' Talk to her just like you always have. Treat her no different than you always have. Also look elsewhere for the love you need. Don't let her think that she has a hook in you if you do she will never come around your way and if she still doesn't you have a friend.
2007-03-01 19:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not into you right now. Maybe if you just back way off and seek out someone else she may end up getting a little jealous and realize she does want to be with you. You never know, if not, there are plenty of girls out there.
2007-03-01 19:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by mary R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the girl likes someone else and is using you if she gets turned down by the guy she likes or maybe she doesn't like you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she says lets just stay friends for now but just keep your head high and broaden your horizons there isn't only one girl in the world
2007-03-01 19:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by lil_chicababy03 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush it. Just stay in touch with her and get to know her more. In time if your relationship grows stronger then it was ment to be. Don't force it, it will only push her away. Take it slow. You will not regret it. As long as you remain friends and still communicate, the rest will come in time.
2007-03-01 19:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by trottergirl80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait and see ;-) You need to respect her feelings - this might not be the right time for now. I did this to my best friend who is a guy. I am now married to him and VERY happy.
2007-03-01 19:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by fijibabie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a good friend and stick it out or be a jerk and become a stalker pain in the a s s ex- friend. The choice is yours...
2007-03-01 19:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bide your time. If that's too tough, start looking around for another girl. Maybe the thought of losing you to someone else will spur your girl to action!
2007-03-01 19:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by trillian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't always get what you want. You have to have interest in other people places and things and then you will be more interesting to her. Friendship can be better than an intimate relationship. It can be less stressful.
2007-03-01 19:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm i dont know i would probably try to play hard to get, but women hate!!! being puit through that, i remeber when i someone did that and i jsut moved on, but you should talk to her and ask her why cant we be together now or when can we, and if she says some lame excuse i would move on
2007-03-01 19:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by sy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋