His wife (we are not friends-she cheats on him) thinks we are sleeping together. My husband who is friends with the guy has also asked this questions, we talked it out already. I am worried that our friendship will cause problems for him and am not sure how to proceed. Do I back off since they are on rocky ground already or continue? We live close together and our kids go to school together. I don't want to lose his friendship though either! Help.......
2007-03-01 10:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's already obviously causing problems for BOTH of you. . . respect each of your marriages enough to put them above your "friendship".
2007-03-01 11:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is of any importance, what other people think you are doing, as long as you know you arent doing it, thats what matters. If his wife is cheating on him as you think she is, it would only be her own insecurities that are making her think that he is doing the same, if your husband is ok, with the two of you being freinds, then i say go for it, do what you think in your own heart is right.
2007-03-01 11:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wife has no real call for saying anything,i mean you did say she cheats on him.regardless of that,why shouldn't you be friends with him,there are no rules stating that woman can only have female friends is there????
2007-03-01 11:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to back off so you wont cause no more problems.
2007-03-01 11:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both your spouses are doubtful, I'd back off at least temporarily.
2007-03-01 11:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
told your husband that you think that he and your friend's wife are sleeping together. lmfao
2007-03-01 11:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by groovybubs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not jeapodize your marraige for anyhing in this world- you took vows with your man, no 'friend' is worth it, if you are wise-you will cool it, trust me, if your friend has any standards he will secretly admire your integrity.
2007-03-01 11:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
fu*k what people think if you want to be friends with him be friends with him.
2007-03-01 11:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone or you will destroy his marriage.
2007-03-01 11:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋