Guys: what do you think of when you find out an attractive girl is a virgin? does that make you want her more?

Question

or is that a turn Off? why?

Answer 1

There is the good and the bad:
The good is that every man dreams of finding that woman that saves herself for that one man.
But when the night comes and goes he and she both feel different about what just happened. She tends to fall in Love, while he just love the fact that he hit it. she tends to move at a little faster pace then is even capable of even thinking. So you have your guys that will run right from the start because they are not sure of what they want they have not thought that far in advance.
She on the other hand is ready -- and don't really know anything else except that which she just experienced and tends to grab hold and won't let go -- that scares men. And some men don't want you to get hurt and will just simply walk away -- others will play the game to get the score. So when the time comes and you waited this long -- talk about what you expect -- put it all on the table -- wait another day or two -- and if he is the one he will wait also. Furthermore go the distance -- wait for that ring -- stay true to yourself.

Answer 2

i have the utmost respect to any young lady who keeps her self until marriage. no it does make me want her more, it makes me respect her more for standing up for her morals...yeah im married and yes i married a virgin, and no i did not want to get into her pants when i found out.......but any guy who is dates a young lady and finds out she is a virgin, should give her the respect she has earned

Answer 3

I prefer a woman with experience. Let Capt. Kirk go where no man has gone before.

Answer 4

Turn off: if she hasn't given it up yet, then I have no interest in putting in the effort to change her mind about that. Unless she has _obviously_ already changed it herself, in which case possibly a turn on.

Answer 5

Neither! It really doesn't matter.