Is there any real men out there who really loves a women for exactly who she is even if she's not the best looking person in the world
2007-03-01 10:50:41 · 17 answers · asked by MsJ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi MissJ I've been married for over 25 years and still going strong I didn't marry untill i was 25 years old and i think i was very lucky to find my perfect soulmate , I'm quite content to spend the rest of my life with her, I did wonder if i was ever going to find true love as many of my friends were marrying from age 18 onwards, lots of them have since seperated My theory for this is that at 18 men are at their sexual peak and with all that testosterone rushing thru there bodies they sometimes make the wrong choices and mistake lust for love, I made this mistake myself a few times and i'm glad i waited till i found the right girl, my advice is to not be in a hurry to marry untill you know you have found mr right, Personality is far more important than looks and i hope this advice is helpful to you and i wish you all the best in life, hang in there mr right will come along eventually
Paul
2007-03-01 11:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by paul R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the problem is that women dont make it easy for a man to follow his heart becuz both women and men is some regards tend to put up fronts about who they really are. Its bad enough that women changes their physical appearance so much to the point that the man doesnt even know what she really looks like, but then women want men to follow their hearts, when all he can think about is "This isnt the same chick that I met at the gym last week."
2007-03-01 10:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by The Answer Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What our eyes see is the first thing we notice about a woman although we love with our hearts and minds. Also, what a man sees plays a big part in triggering the chemical reaction in our bodies that is physical attraction--where most relationships begin.
Generally, a man's got to get to know you before the emotions start to kick in. If you don't feel your looks are sufficient to capture a man's attention on first glance, it's often not much of a stretch to make up the shortfall with personality and charm.
This is coming from man who married his current wife after having know her for less than a month. It was a combination of looks and charm that first got my attention. The emotions and love came after I started getting to know her.
2007-03-01 11:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of adult men have a emotional cycle that starts with prompt infatuation over a woman. He sees her, he's concentrated on her seems, her voice, her happiness, and immediately he needs her to be his on my own. that's a harmful beginning. next interior the cycle is the honeymoon era the place she would be in a position to do no incorrect. He defends her until now his acquaintances and kin, he'd run away along with her if mandatory, and it is the main beautiful element of love. even however, approximately 3 years right into a relationship, the shine has worn off slightly. Now she's trapped like a lightning trojan horse in a jar, especially to look at, yet limited. lots of the happiness has dwindled, perchance now there are little ones to advance, screaming, crying babies, and the interest he is going to is uninteresting. here is the place the coolest adult men substitute into separated from the lesser adult men. If he can persevere, convey excitement to his considerable different and babies, grant for the needs of all, he has shown himself a actual guy, and not purely a boy. i don't think of all adult men hate women folk, i think of all of them fall prey to the adrenaline enable-down whilst they have captured their elusive lightning trojan horse and the evening is stepping into day.
2016-10-17 01:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man really loves a women, it is with his heart! If it's his eyes than i would say that's Hormones, not love!
2007-03-01 10:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do exist - we're the nice guys - there's just not that many of us. I can honestly say that I have never looked harder at the wrapping than I have the contents of the parcel.
A woman's beauty is much more than skin-deep - you just need to kick some guys hard in the n*ts to get them to see that.
2007-03-01 10:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Paul The Rock Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men are far and few between! When you find some let me know! I end up with jerks too. Good luck!
2007-03-01 10:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, not all guys are shallow. There are definatly some sweethearts out there...you just gotta wait for them.
2007-03-01 10:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, no. My last bf said that I was out of his league and he had this big ego issue. If you ever find one you'll be lucky.
2007-03-01 10:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women look at mens wallet and not personality
2007-03-01 10:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋