We were taking a walk and suddenly he ask me to enter in one sex shop to see the stuffs there. But in that moment i felt so shame and i think his action was so abuse.
I said no and later i rewarded him very well, i think so. I wonder, my reaction was stupid and i should accept his invitation or he choose a bad time, he should talk before about the subject not in front of the sex shop.?
2007-03-01 10:49:03 · 25 answers · asked by Evangeline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may not have meant to upset you or embarrass you. he probably just saw the store and thought it would be fun to see what there was. Or maybe he didn't know how to talk to you about it and that was the only way he could bring it up. Now that you know he is interested in looking around, maybe you should talk about.
2007-03-01 10:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by quiescent_soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was bad form to not ask you before 'going past' one. but maybe he is shy of the subject.
He may want to take the relationship further and if so, this is a terribly clumsy way of saying so.
Save sex until you are comfotable with it and if you decide to go ahead, use contraception as sex leads to babies for most people... and do you want a baby now in your life and the next 18 YEARS?
2007-03-01 18:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by confused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs a little more spice in their relationship and a sex shop is the right place to help you out! =)
The reason he asked you to go in was probably because it was one of those "heat of the moment" type of things.
Next time, you ask him to go in there with you. Believe me, you'll both be happy with the outcome.
2007-03-01 18:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by ciscokid626_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinkyou over reacted a little bit. It is by no means abuse to be interested in entering a sex shop with your girlfriend. If your not comfortable with it just let him know that you will think about and let yourself get mroe comfortable with the idea.
2007-03-01 18:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no big deal. Sex shops are fun and there's nothing wrong about going into one. Your BF was just trying to think of something fun to do
2007-03-01 18:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take a wander in, you can get to know the guys kinky side real quick that way, so you will know what you are in for, and if you dont like it, tell him , a good learning experience, consider it the library of love lol
Good luck and have fun with it!
2007-03-01 18:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the sex shop thing is gross. Personally, I think those shops are for one person to go in there alone and surprise their partner by picking something out. If you're in their with him, that just ruins it. If you don't feel comfortable going in the sex shop, then don't go in. It's your decision and your's only.
2007-03-01 18:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you don't go in with him, I'm sure he'll find another gal who will. Obviously you two are having sex, I'm sure he just wants to kink it up. You should have just gone in, even if there wasn't going to be a transaction, at least you could have made fun of some stuff to relax.
2007-03-01 18:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry_Fire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You bring up the subject now and tell him you'd be interested in seeing what's they have there.
Looking doesn't mean you have to use them...it can just be window shopping.
2007-03-01 18:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls feel that way at a younger age because they are more embarrassed as they get older they dont care and will go at it so if i were you id just get it over with and go in there and have some fun you will find it rewarding
2007-03-01 18:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by millsy1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋