I don't pay for anyone on the first date except myself
I expect to have sex before the first date.
I do not feel it is my job as a man to cater to any woman.
If I am cheap for just paying for myself than what is she for not paying for herself, and wanting me to pay for her.
You don't ever have to put out. The same thing for my wallet.
No woman should fine any of this as a form of disrespect.
Damn need I say more.
2007-03-01 10:48:44 · 25 answers · asked by Hugh P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Damn no you don't. Hope you enjoy your own company, you'll be spending alot of time with yourself, cheap @ss.
2007-03-01 10:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well then, why are you asking? It sounds like your mind is pretty much made up.
Personally, I say, for the first date at least, whoever asks, pays. If I invite a guy out for a one-on-one, I expect to pay. If a guy asks me out and doesn't pay, there won't be a second date. If he's that clueless about etiquette and social niceties, I know it's not going to be worth it.
You expect to have sex before the first date? Is that a typo? If not, well, good luck with that. I'm guessing you don't see a lot of tail.
2007-03-01 10:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get use to being single because I bet you don't get very many second dates. And I doubt that you get laid that often. Look what is the cost of a meal to have a nice evening with the opposite sex. If I was a woman I surely would not consider having a relationship with such a tight wad, nether alone giving him some cooter.
2007-03-05 07:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever invites the person should pay.
And it also depends on the quality of woman you want...if you want a hooker, compare a woman putting out in relation to your wallet again and you might get lucky with a blow up doll...
If you want to be a gentleman (and you have a LONG way to go) lose the metrosexual attitude and pay up buddy!
Find a woman who appreciates the old niceties (guy holding the door for her, offering his arm to escort her, etc ) and you find a good woman.
Find a femi-nazi and get the same treatment you just described giving to women.
2007-03-01 14:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sublime_Savvy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the person who asks for the date should pay. Nobody should be expected to "put out" as a reward for a date. If you want her company, ask her out, and then be willing to provide the activity. If I ask a man out, I expect to pay for the date because I asked.
I'm not sure if you really mean to write "I expect to have sex before the first date." but I really don't know how to respond to that one.
2007-03-01 18:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are making a statement, not a question but:
You could find a woman who believes in going dutch, but that limits the pool of women you can date.
Sex before the first date? I think it limits it more. But it is a free world.
2007-03-01 13:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by mitchell2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he feels confortable that there is going to be a respectable
long term relationship that will lead into marriage with simular goals in mind for the future. When he can feel secure about your devotion and his towards you and going to be one that will endure a lot of hardships out there in a world that is increasingly getting worse to make a living and living together.
Sincerely yours,
Fred M. Hunter
fmhguitars@yahoo.com
2007-03-01 17:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by fmhguitars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called wooing a woman. Just pay for it even if she insists on going dutch. A woman wants a man who can provide, even if she doesn't know that is what she finds attractive to her. If you expect a woman to "put out" because you paid for dinner, you need to call your friend Harry Palms and date him instead.
2007-03-01 11:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Sluggo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think if a guy asks a girl out the first time he should pay just as if a girl asks a guy out she should pay. if you both want to do it again then you should go dutch. at least until a relationship is developed then i think it should be 50/50 completely equal.
2007-03-01 14:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. Between your bad manners and your awful spelling it is definitely enough. Why would anyone want some tightwad who is disrespectful of women, don't know the answer to that. I sure would not. There are plenty of men out there who know how to treat a woman and they get more than just sex out of it. Grow up.
2007-03-01 10:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by ZenWoman 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Whoever asked for the date should pay. From there I think it should be a matter of taking turns.
2007-03-01 11:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by calypso_suicide 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋