i don't wanna be mean but it is kinda funny. hes 16 and he still gets it bare butt. lol. i haven't seen him get it yet but i heard one the other day when his mom found out about a speeding ticket. she took him into the other room and whooped his butt! i couldnt believe it! i love him a lot and i dont want to see him in pain but its just too funny. am i being a b**ch?
2007-03-01 10:46:58 · 43 answers · asked by Tessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOLOLOL hell no it's funny as HELL
2007-03-01 10:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by James Dean Girl <3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A bit hard to say ... he gets spanked "bare butt". Does he still get it otk? With what does she spank him? Does he laugh about the spankings? Has he ever invited you to watch him getting spanked?
What do YOU find "funny" about HIM getting spanked? Would you find it "funny", laughable if he heard (or saw) your dad give you a similar spanking?
IMO, probably a person should NOT tease another (even her boyfriend) about being spanked unless that person (yourself) knows just what such a spanking is like, at 16 years of age. And realize that he may find a spanking to be embarrassing, esp. at 16. Maybe much more embarrassing for his girlfriend to know (and hear) him getting it -- esp. if he didn't take it silently. Likely, too, a guy would find it embarrassing being spanked by his mom (though dad's spankings likely would "pain" more)
Maybe YOU need to experience the discomfort he does ... maybe you need for his mother to spank YOUR bare butt the same as she does his? Some how I suspect you may have been an accessory to the speeding which resulted in his getting the ticket which led to his getting spanked. Of course, you would not be feeling near the embarrassment which he felt.
And, IMO, for a speeding ticket probably more logical would have been taking his licence (driving privileges) away for a significant length of time ... like maybe 2 days for each mile per hour over the posted speed.
Of course, that would mean he wouldn't be able to take you out for a ride for that long.
2007-03-01 16:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that this is happening to him at such an age, may mean that their is some kind of sexual perversion going on in the minds of his parents. This is typically something that ends when your 10-12 at the absolute latest. So I would be concerned about some kind of sexual deviancy, not that there is any actual intercourse necessarily, but it just might be a way his parents get off, that is by spanking their child. The other side of this could be that this parents feel they must keep some kind of power over him, and thus use spanking as that method of aggressive behavior in order to keep him in line. You mentioned that this happened while you were at the house visiting, and were able to hear it in the other room. That I think would support this line of thinking because his mother wants to be sure that she has complete control over her son, and that her sons girlfriend has none. This also is a way to make the son feel humiliated infront of you, and less of a man, this could also connect the two ideas together, inthat his mother in an attempt to keep her boy all to her self, does this in fairly non-private manner to strip him of his dignity in front of you, and removing any possible sexual aire between the two of you, and keeping that dependece on his partents for as long a time as possible.
2007-03-01 10:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by gazoots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got whooped until i was 13 or 14 I think 14 but you know what I bet you he won't hit you, or steal from you prolly even cheat on you.
More kids now adays need to get a good whooping. I'd say just leave it alone it's embarrasing. What if you got your period on a day your weren't expecting it and it ruined your clothes and he saw it.
Do you want him bringing that up? I doubt it so extend the same curtosy your time of embarassment will come.
2007-03-01 10:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what is the least bit funny about his mother humiliating him in t hat manner and quite frankly I don't believe you care for him at all to find it anything but sick and abusive. There is something very disturbing abut a mother taking down her 16 year olds pants and slapping his butt. I would say she either doesn't get that he is too old for that type of discipline (if that's what you want to call it) or she is getting sexual gratification out of it. You should be ashamed of yourself for doing anything other than supporting him and advising him to tell his mother this has to stop immediately.
2007-03-01 10:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tease him....u will be put on the same level as his mon=m, who just humiliated him. Just dont mention it anymore. i think a spanking on a any 16 year old is not normal. He is certainly close to becoming a man...and that is kinda sick. So, he must feeel really humilated by it. be supoortive, and dont discuss it, unless he wants to talk about it. i bet u though, he doesnt get another speeding ticket anytime soon! And if he does....he must enjoy those spankings!!
2007-03-01 10:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by combodeal2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of, but I agree it is a tad funny. Spanking at age 16 is laughable. It sounds like his mom is the b**ch and maybe he needs to tell one of his teachers or counselors about it and teach her a lesson.
2007-03-01 10:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... don't tease him to the brink of tears. lol. I tease my guy friend about some things that are a little "unique" about him (college boy whose mom still sends him new underwear through the mail...). I wouldn't go as far as to call yourself a *****. Just make sure you're not REALLY hurting him by making fun of him and do it in moderation. ;)
2007-03-01 10:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his parents have some problems if they are still spanking a 16 year old boy. I would tone it down if I were you he may be really embarrased by it and doesnt want to admit it. Nothing is worse then having your girlfriend hear you being spanked my your mom. Pretty de-mascualting if you ask me.
2007-03-01 10:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think his mom's behavior is gross. By the age of 16, I can't imagine why any mom would want to touch their child's bare bottom. Surely in today's world, she has crossed the line! Am I being a prude?!?
2007-03-01 10:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by rocky's here 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha! I know exactly what you're talking about! Of course I'm not in the same situation as you (it's sounds kind of uncommon..) but I'd definitely laugh too. Is he uncomfortable about it? If he is, try to keep the laughs to yourself. But if it's just a joke to him, it's okay for it to be a joke to you. Watch yourself though! You don't want to be a bad friend to him and tell.
2007-03-01 10:52:22 · answer #11 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋