I am in college and i was wondering if i got in a relationship with you and told you i have never really kissed someone or made out, would that be a turn on or turn off? Would you tell me what you like and how to do it?
2007-03-01 10:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't call it a turn-off. I mean i would be surprised that you havnt kissed a boy and your in college, but i wouldnt consider it a turn-off.. i dont think many men would consider a turn off.. you would be fine. And if your boyfriend really cared about you he would teach you how.. but guys usally dont w3ant sombody thats been slutting herself around, iut is a turn-on to have a good kisser.. but experiance isnt always good. and if i like sombody.. i like sombody.. the kiss or anything else wouldnt be the thing that keeps me in the relationship.. lots of guys would agree :)
2007-03-01 10:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by K Boose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, from a college girls point of view..... I've never "made out" but I've planted a couple of kisses on guys, and never bothered to tell the first one that it was my first kiss. cutest thing of all? college BOY and it was HIS first too. Maybe the guy hasn't either. It IS possible. Not everyone must be a make-out bandit. If it was someone you were comfortable with, I wouldn't think they'd find it a turn off at all. If it's the right relationship, it can be worked out together. Don't let stuff like that get you down, girl!!
2007-03-01 10:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by MaggieMaeBrowne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sorta be turned on, but sorta not, because you dont' have experience, but it is exciting teaching another person. so about 1/2 1/2. But guys don't necessarily want someone who's slutted around, so experience may not be a good thing. But to me, if I like the person, I like the person, the kiss won't be the deciding factor of staying inside a relationship.
2007-03-01 10:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would this change the person you are? No? Then it wouldn't bother me one bit. And no, I wouldn't tell you what I like - that's not something you can tell. You explore together - and guide each other - it's a sharing thing, not an instruction manual. Any guy who tries to tell you how to do something like this is not worth your time or affection.
Hope that helps
2007-03-01 10:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Paul The Rock Ape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be a little surprised... but not turned off.
I'd be flattered that you wanted to have your 1st kiss with me...
No pressure, though! You'll only remember that moment for the rest of your life!
2007-03-01 10:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by AgentZero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't be a turn-off to me.
Hell, I've never kissed a guy either!
2007-03-01 10:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Skyhawk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt be a turn off but also depends on the guy but hey if you wanna practice e-mail me lol
2007-03-01 10:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by millsy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told a BF that once and he wasn't bothered by it. He seemed to think it was cute
2007-03-01 10:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would'nt be a turn off. Yes, i guess i'd tell you how to do it.
2007-03-01 10:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I'd find it intriguing being able to teach you how things are done.
2007-03-01 10:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋