So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, and he has always been honest and truthful with me, so when he found out that this girl likes him, he told me. But now it kind of seems like she is trying to take him away from me. Am I being parinoid? I love him more that I can ever say and I know he loves me. I trust him with all of my heart, but I don't trust her. What should I do?
2007-03-01 10:30:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are being a bit paranoid. He told you, after all.
You can tell him that you are not comfortable with her feelings for him. If he does the right thing he'll understand and lessen the amount of time he spends with/near/in the vicinity of her.
2007-03-01 10:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't trust her.... Do trust him.
2) Been there done that... Wanting to be an honest guy does not mean you have to share everything... case in point.. the fact that some other girl was interested in him... Heck... there are plenty of girls interested in him and there are plenty of guys interested in you... IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING... it's just how it goes.
3) If asked, you tell the truth; but you don't have to share things that should not matter.. especially if they may cause a problem.
2007-03-01 18:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. However, the wrong thing to do is to act out in a negative way to express she is making you uncomfortable. Unless she starts to make moves onto him, there is no need to start any drama or to confront her. Just make sure you inform your boyfriend that you are a little worried about her and what could happen (kindly). Please do not act all clingy or catty whenever she is around... that looks desperate and is mean. She knows he is yours, but whether or not she will respect that...
2007-03-01 18:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him,then there should be nothing to worry about.Its understandable to not trust her,but if you trust him then no matter what she does he will be truthful and stand by you.You can tell her to back off,though.Let her know he's taken.Ever heard that song "Dont Mess with my Man" by Nivea.
2007-03-01 18:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't feel that you should worry about her trying to "take" him away. Number one, if she manages to "take" him away from you, he was never really yours to begin with.
You say that you trust him with all your heart. You should ask yourself, if you trust him so much, why are you doubting him? Unless he is giving you a reason for it.
| wouldn't worry about it too much.
Hopefully that helps!
--Vae
2007-03-01 18:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust your boyfriend and stop worrying about her-so long as he has no interest and is upfront you have nothing to be concerned about
2007-03-01 18:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by kuriositykittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should't trust nobody with all your hart,thats how people get there feelings hurt.Just set him down oneday and explain to him how you feel.
2007-03-01 18:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him then nothing bad will happen and he won't leave you. she is not a threat if nothing can stand in the way of love.
2007-03-01 18:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me...Ignore her, be confident in YOURSELF. Not your boyfriend or your relationship. Be confident in yourself and you will have the highest possible chance to keep him around.
2007-03-01 18:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honstley, tell her to back off, if that doesnt work beat the crap outta her! lol
2007-03-01 18:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by sweetheart1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋