I don't want any comments on how we are not married.
At night (or whenever) all he wants is a quick lay and I hate that! He told me that he does not like foreplay. What can I do to make our sexual relationship more interesting?
2007-03-01 10:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to smarten his act up --- its not about him its about you as well and if he is not considering your needs at this early stage you may be in for a very rocky time --- you need to resolve this --- and while sex is not the entire relationship it is indicitive of how he cares for you --- best wishes
2007-03-01 10:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really only have four kinds of options:
1. Explain your feelings patiently. Make him understand how strong they run. Try VERY hard not to be accusing.
2. Bluntly explain a linkage to him between giving foreplay and getting oral sex.
3. End the engagement.
4. Have a miserable marriage.
I know the phrasing of the above is glib, but actually I'm absolutely serious.
2007-03-01 15:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the best thing to do is to tease him in bed because I am a guy so I will fill you in when you both lay down start by kissing him and running your hands all over him slowly and when you do this where something sexy start by giving him a hand job when hes fully hard stop take controll he is weak now lay down and let him chase you by playing with you or your breast and then reach for him and keep him hard then make sure you have your pussy shaved or a landing strip up top and get in the 69 posiont give him fast deep troat action and grind your pussy in his face then slow it down while he eats you rember a women is in controll when she gives good head and swallows well good luck and you can mail me back at laj142@comcast remmeber I am a man if he wontdo that for you i will I love to eat peaches
2007-03-01 10:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by JANICE L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like kissing you, hugging you, and all the sweet intimate moments like that? All he wants is sex and he doesn't give a damn what makes you feel good and special?
I'd say it's best to wait til marriage to have sex, but in your case you're not married and you probably should take advantage of this to break up if he really doesn't care enough for you to express his love in a non-selfish way.
2007-03-01 10:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you say i do....get your sex life in order! no it is not all about sex...but it is a part of it...and you both should try to be on the same page. dont make it as if you "have" to have foreplay everytime...but he should be willing to work with what you like and you can work with what he does not like...
if he is this quick in bed...he may be quick in other areas of your relationship...
take a look...and most of all...be honest with yourself!
2007-03-01 10:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he isn't tryin to hear you i think that is unfair!! I'm sure the compromise can't kill him even if 3 -4 times a month.
If marriage is suposed to happen sompromise has to begin now and something as simple as SEX is soo easy to remedy
2007-03-01 10:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try setting the mood with gentle music and candles maybe. what about trying massage, dressing up, toys etc.. talk to him he needs to know how you feel and let him no that he turns you on when he takes it slow
2007-03-01 10:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by jus b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that where orgasms are concerned, he doesn't get his until you get yours. That sould provide some motivation.
Guy kinda sounds like a pig, sorry, but that's pretty selfish!
2007-03-01 10:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet him in the hallway wearing a wip cream binkinie. tell him he cant have it till he licks u clean.
2007-03-01 10:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋