2007-03-01 10:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. If you say "I don't want to get hurt" you are coming from a place of being hurt. Therefore you are attracting hurt.
You have to take a chance with people. That's what life's about.
FP
2007-03-01 10:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how you said it here. AND, you need to protect yourself.
1) Dating is for getting to know someone, for making friends.
2) Do not be easy. If you are easy, the dogs out there, who only care about getting your clothes off of you, will take advantage of you. They'll tell you anything you want to hear just to get what they want. If they see it isn't going to be easy, they'll move on a look for an easier target.
3) There are going to be painful experiences. Breakups, boys that lie to you. Love that fails the test. The only way to keep from going through this is to not date. Become a Nun. You will go through the pain, learn from it and be a better person.
4) Nice guys are patient. Nice guys respect women. But nice guys do not fall out of trees. They usually start out as immature boys who do not know what it is they want or how to get it. You may have to wait longer than you like for your nice guy to find you.
So protect yourself. Be strong. Be patient. Sex? Once you have it you'll know, the best part about it is doing it with someone you truly love and who loves you back. Not some guy you hardly know in his parents garrage... And by all means. If you're going to do it, make him wear a condom...
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-01 10:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first issues first you may desire to loosen up. you're dealing with some trials and tribulations proper now yet they'll bypass and additionally you will replace into extra suitable as a effect. neglect with reference to the pricks that are calling you names and attempting to make your existence depressing. quickly you will comprehend merely how insignificant they're interior the grand scheme of issues. "acceptance" leads to extreme college, heavily. noone in college or interior the working international ought to furnish a sh$t how extensive-unfold or what proportion boyfriends you had in highschool. stay your existence the style you desire and locate happiness in each little thing you do. existence is eye-catching in case you open you eyes and take all of it in.
2016-12-18 13:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let yourself get hurt by him. You have to be honest with him and only give what you are willing to lose. If you give to much of yourself to early on, then u are setting yourself up for being hurt. Peace out.
2007-03-01 10:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by katyh124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to get hurt by him dont give yourself to him emotionally and physically until you know he will not want to hurt you...
2007-03-01 10:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell YOUR boyfriend you love him because if you DONT then he woun't know. If hes truely worth it, if he does hurt you.. it'll be worth the pain.
2007-03-01 10:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT!!!!! if u show a man ur weak side they know they got u. please dont let him know he has that kind of power i promise u will regret it
2007-03-01 10:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2007-03-01 10:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by joethemetaldude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋