I found a wonderful woman to chat with online, i really believed that we would meet, problems have meant that she cannot meet me now. ok ok i am 52 she 31 etc etc was i fooling myself in thinking that i might get this one chance late in life to have some fun?
2007-03-01 10:13:37 · 17 answers · asked by Pussywants 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is definately NOT too late for you!!! First of all, we are all very fortunate to be aging in this day and age and not when our parent's did!
Second, if 30 is the new 20 and 40 is the new 30, surely 50 is the new 40!! My mom just got divorced and she is older than you and found someone! And when my grandfather died a few years ago, my grandmother was still able to meet someone and be happy, and she was in her 70's!!!
Perhaps, you are too old to get a 30 year old, but that's ok. Chances are you are both in different places in your life and it wouldn't work out anyway. Look at Anna Nicole. No just kidding.
If you really are interested in meeting someone, I think the best way is eharmony.com or match.com. They do a personality test and ask you the things you are interested in. Plus, I think you will find less frauds through them. I mean why spend all the time filling out your profile if you were just making it all up? Chatting online on the other hand produces all kinds of liars and weirdos...which is to be expected, I guess, since it is so easy!
Anyway, good luck, and whatever you do DON'T give up. I know it's harder to meet people when you are older (unless you date someone you work with--but who wants to do that), but it can be done. Try taking a class you are interested in or something and scope out the other people and see what's up if you aren't into the dating websites...
2007-03-01 10:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by mychelleb25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dave why can't you meet what is the problem, has this been an internet only relationship, are there problems because you haven't been entirely honest with each other or are there still other parties involved ie husbands wives on both sides etc, have you been honest with yourself aswell as this young girl about all aspects of this relationship because if there is no honesty from the onset then the meeting and relationship is doomed to failure.
I know how easy it is to get caught up in a dream and fantasy world and when we start to exaggerate and to bend and distort certain facts which is all so easy online, this is one of the many downfalls with internet relationships.
2007-03-01 21:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gullible just trusting,unfortunately you cant believe what someone says to you in a chat room..you could have been talking to a man for all you know .
Some one real will probably come along when you least expect it ..I think its best not to look and love will find you!
52 is not late in life by the way so dont put yourself on the shelf just yet!
2007-03-01 10:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you werent fooling yourself into thinking you might get another chance, life isnt sure of anything, it holds no guarantees. for whatever reason she was inyour life for it meant you go to meet this wonderful woman and for a short time be a part of her life too. everything in life hapens for a reason. im sure if she cannot meet you face to face there is a good explaination why and i am sorry to hear that you now know this will not happen. i met my boyfriend online (no i wasnt searching for dating) and honestly wouldnt encouarge anyone too look for partners or love on the internet. the internet now days is crazy and there are alot of sick or twisty people out there who cannot help but lie, cheat or play somoene elses feelings. dont be down, if it didnt work kout maybe it was for the best and im sure you will always stil meet more people in your life because 52 isnt that old!!
2007-03-01 16:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
52 to 31 that's some other chance to expect, and online romances are one in a million you gullible fool.. you did ask!
2007-03-01 12:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by richiesown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what me and my bloke both thought when we 'met' on a chat text thing. We had more than fun, we have been married for nearly two years now. Be very wary and be safe cos there are some nutters out there, but dont let it put you off. They say there is someone out there for all of us.
2007-03-01 10:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Remain optimistic and keep looking, and 52 ain`t late in life! (from a 51 young year old!)
2007-03-01 10:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let one failed attempt at meeting someone detour you. She probably just wasn't the right one. Now adays it's difficult to meet nice people, since everyone is living such a fast pace life. Just keep your chin up, and try again with someone else.
2007-03-01 10:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are gullible .....just hopeful and i don't see anything wrong with wanting to meet some one ..... you are not that late in life...as long as you can put a little pep in your step you are in good shape......just give her a little more time......if not her maybe there is someone else out there for you........keep your head up no matter what.
2007-03-01 10:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by phattybiggums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she won't or can't meet you, chances are she's either not who she says she is, or she's married.
She might be fooling you, but that doesn't mean love is impossible-- it's probably just not going to be with her.
2007-03-01 10:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋