my cuzzin told me wen ever i bring my boyfriend to mu houe or any guy he is goin to beat the living crap out of them and wen ever a guy looks at me and says something like mmmmmmmmmm or yous hot he will fight them y does he do this
2007-03-01 10:11:47 · 9 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just playing the old caveman style, let hope he not doing to be a hypocrite.
2007-03-01 10:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I could say he is just being protective of you, but that is not the truth, he is being over protective, your cousin needs to respect you and your friends and stop being so aggressive towards them, I think the best thing for you to do is try and speak to him, let him know how it makes you feel, when he Say's those sorts of things, if you think he is not the sort of person who will listen, then, maybe you should think of moving somewhere where you and your friends will be safe.... Why does he do this??? Your cousin has a lot of anger inside of him, maybe when he was growing up he seen guy's disrespect women, and he doesn't want it to happen to you, look i don't want to defend his violent behaviour, and I wouldn't advise you to put up with it because it is not a good attitude to have, but there could be a strong serious reason for him to act like this... tell him to get help (COUNSELLOR)...
Or he could have something for you, sorry but that was my other theory.... you never know these days, sorry again if i am wrong...
Hope I have helped..
2007-03-01 18:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by uniqueinspirations 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's what all guys do except some guys show it more. Your cousin is the type of guy who acts it out more. Don't worry if I were you I would just try to tell him to get of your back tell him its your choice if you want to date guys or not; and if he doesnt lay off just do the same to the girls that are dating him if he is dating.
2007-03-01 18:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares about you...and doesnt want you to get hurt...talk to him and ask him 2 stop so you can have a have a boyfriend and tell him to give that guy a chance.
2007-03-01 18:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being protective. Don't bring your boyfriend around..
And learn how to speak correctly too.
2007-03-01 18:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he's over protective,but after he get his azz kicked a few times, he'll chill out.
2007-03-01 18:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jealous and controling man,unfortunately,some guys are like that.I couldn't bee with someone like that.Someone who thinks they own you.
2007-03-01 18:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by TH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be more than a cousin to you --- while it is frowned upon and there are long term implications for children --- i know of 2 couples who married their cousins and they had beautiful children ---- tell him to back off or get lost --- best wishes
2007-03-01 18:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he an alcohalic?
2007-03-01 18:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋