ok im a talented person i sing write music and record music and i found a producer who is going to sign me soon. now all my life i ran into bad men in relationships and i realized that my producer personally has everything i wanted in a man i have a HUGE crush on him and he knows it and he likes me so much. we have our own seperate lives nothing serious and we see and talk and spend time together everyday on the real note but i dont want him to find a serious relationship or get married because i feel he is that one for me but i cant tell him what to do. but i want him so bad and ive had a few samples of him LOL already and he is just what i need but how do i got about a situation like this because after all u cant mix business with pleasure but we want each other bad , what should i do? and how should i control this situation? any suggestions ? and what is your opinion?
2007-03-01 09:59:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your past relationships may have alot to do with it, your afraid and have the fear of messing up a good thing if u and he get together. if u care for him and he cares the same for u, and just doesn't want u for sex only, why not tell him how u feel. best to try and get a glimpse into his past, and maybe u can see what might be in the future for u if u were to get into a relationship with him. u need to communicate with him, see if he feels the same about u, see what his intentions are, find out if he is seeing someone else first before deciding. if u feel he is for u, don't waste time, as time waits for no one. don't put it off too long with him or some other girl may just zap him up before u get the courage to tell him how u feel. ask him if he has feelings for u, than based on what he tells u, u can proceed or not.
2007-03-01 10:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be together, be together, but get a different producer.
2007-03-01 18:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds lile you have already mixed business and pleasure what is more important happyness or your dreams or maby just maby you can have both ask yourself then trust yourself never look back
2007-03-01 18:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by howdy doody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋