can you really trust them ?
2007-03-01 09:51:25 · 23 answers · asked by coma toast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If women want to know how much money you make on the first date then you are dating the wrong women- if they can't get to know you for who you are within yourself and not where you live or what car you drive- throw her back- plenty of other fish in the sea-catch one that is willing to look at you without seeing a dollar sign-
2007-03-01 17:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by kuriositykittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them. Tell them you don't earn any money on a date with young cute women, you only get to spend it. Tell them that if you want to make money on a date, you go out with older, more desperate women.
2007-03-01 21:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is asking u ur salary on ur first date- save urself by turning around and walking out the door dude. All women are genetically designed to have some interest in your earning potential, but a classy woman will tease it out subtly in conversation or judge it by how ur dressed and carry urself.
2007-03-01 17:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they want to know if you could afford to pay for the date. If it's a matter of trust with you, then ask them how much they make and ask them what are their spending habits. That'll shut them up.
I agree that it's in poor taste to ask that question on the first date. I'd be leery too. Go with your gut feeling.
2007-03-01 17:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! man if a woman asks u what you make on the first date then more than likely they want money!!!
2007-03-01 17:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You earn money on dates?
2007-03-01 17:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Thom W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off not ALL woman are like that...the ones that are are just nosy and lame and could be a few that are gold diggers...I dont ask a man that ?? when I go out on dates.....I was brought up to use some tact when talking to people and wanting to ask them certain questions....like my cousin tells me think before I talk and ask myself is it true?is it kind? and is it really worth saying??
yes there are some woman (like me) that can be trusted.
Good Luck
2007-03-01 17:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,that means they are gold diggers,only want you for your money,b.c. they want you to support them,you cannot trust someone if their interested in your income,on the first date.
2007-03-01 17:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by TH 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because they want to know if you get real series they want to that you got the funds to them out in time of needs you don't want a broke female but some female are gold digger and that ain't cool at all
2007-03-01 17:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by msjamie2581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they might be just trying to make conversation (looking on the bright side) but they probably are incredibly high maintenance and want to make sure you can afford them.
2007-03-01 17:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by kaicey247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋