ive been going out wit her for 6 months and she is a major flirt and shes changing schools and both of her x's go there.....and last time i had a girlfriend that went to a dif school sh cheeted on me.....what should i do?????
2007-03-01 09:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Joe T. Pride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you need to realize that your girlfriend is not your ex.
Second of all, if you don't trust her then you don't have much hope of keeping this relationship going. If you trust her and you can make it work - going to different schools (w/ or w/o an ex or two) shouldn't matter.
Talk to her about your concerns. She'll either put your fears to rest or you both may agree it's in your best interest to go your seperate ways for now.
2007-03-01 09:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like you have too many issues in this relationship to continue being in it. First of all, you have major trust issues. You can't trust this girl because she is a "major flirt", and goes to school with exes. You also might have issues trusting her because of past relationships, but you haven't mentioned anything about it. If you think that the six months you've been with her are worth fighting to keep, then do it. But if it's bad enough that you have to resort to Yahoo! Answers to try to get one of us in this vast web of faceless people to tell you to break up with her, you probably have so many doubts that you don't need to be with her anymore. High school relationships usually aren't worth it long-distance, anyway, unless you're in love SO much that you absolutely trust her and would never even consider ending it. Since you don't seem to, I'd say dump her. Sorry... and good luck!
2007-03-01 17:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by emmabee2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of girls who flirt don't want the guy, just their attention. It usually means that they want more attention from the boyfriend, and that he isn't giving her the attention she wants/needs. And I don't think you should base whether or not the relationship stays on another girlfriend's decisions. <3
2007-03-01 17:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing that you can do is to break up her because long distance relationships do not work for the most part
2007-03-01 17:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try changing schools and if you find shes cheat cheat on her right back or dump her
2007-03-01 17:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dgirl1204 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you either trust her and see if it works
or you don't trust her and tell her you would rather end it now because you don't think it will work with her going to a different school
be cool...
2007-03-01 17:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can assume they are her exs because she was not interested in them anymore. as for the cheating, not all girls are the same. express your concerns to her.
2007-03-01 17:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your girlfriend is different 4rm the other one you had
2007-03-01 17:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up with her
2007-03-01 17:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by SHY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋