its an easy problem : i met this guy when i was in a chatting ro0m
so we sarted to talk and wut ever then i gave him my E-mail after a lil while we decided to meet in some place ....i met him and he was sweet and co0ol and we are dating for more than 3 yrs but the problem is he asked me to marry him and i said yes but now im not sure about that any more!!! what am i feeling i really need help!
2007-03-01 09:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by not_sure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur feeling nervous!
every going to be wife does.
ur in love with ur husband and there is no one u can love anymroe than u do him.
dont worry, everything will be alright, just some prewedding jitters!
u and ur soon to be husband will do great together!
GOOD LUCK AND CONGRATULATIONS!
2007-03-01 09:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't worry about it. You both have made it this far the best decision aperson could make is to give the rest of there life to some one they love. I did the same thing and today we are still happy as can be. But if your not sure the only thing I could say is for the both of you go to a church and take marriage classes that will set your answer in stone
2007-03-01 09:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by lil brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW Hun that's a pretty big predicament. You need to do some serious soul searching. Why don't you want marry him and why do you. Way your options. what's greater but don't be scared....
If you still have these feelings in a week or so I would say talk to your fiance. this could be some serious issue you two need to work out.
2007-03-01 09:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by P!NK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you're feeling is normal. Just keep thinking about it and then if you feel the same way about it you might want to talk to him about your feelings. I would anyway. I dated my last boyfriend for 3 and a half years but I never wanted to marry him. He knew that too. Best of luck to you girl.
2007-03-01 09:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell him ASAP! You don't have to break it off completely but at least ask to postpone. Let him know you need some time to figure some things out for yourself and see if that works. Best of luck!
2007-03-01 09:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well probally it is just a feeling of insecurity
you probally are not ready yet
so what you have to do is to talk to him about it
if he truly loves you then he will wait for you
there was a quote that my mother always told me that "TRUE LOVE WAITS NO MATTER WHAT"
either that or you are seeing another guy
that is the best that i can do for you
2007-03-01 09:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets (cold feet) that's a normal way to feel, because this is a big step for you both, but you will be fine don't worry get married and be happy!
2007-03-01 09:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey nobody can help you at this point. All it comes down to now is how you feel. So, simply asked....do you love him enough to spend your life with him?
2007-03-01 09:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
called cold feet, you need to sort out your feelings
2007-03-01 09:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chick,
DOn't think to ur HEAD...listen to ur heart!!!
If u think this is what it really is...and how its suppose to be..listen to ur heart and not ur head.
If u think that is what u see in the future is him and u, and u can't see no one else but him and u...go for it
2007-03-01 09:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by Toni S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋