new bf. and i have known him 4 a while now(since like 8th grade) and were in high skool. well he finally asked me out 2 day...but my best friend found out that i hadnt answered and put me on the spot to say yes...so i did. i really like this guy...but the only problem is he has a very unhealthy sexual obsession...i mean like he has gone thru a bag of condoms in a wek...so i wanna tell him that i really dont want to have sex with him...yet n e way. but thats the only thing he sees in gurls...so i dont know what to do. i really like him and it took him 4 ever 2 ask me out,i had been waiting 4 ever. but wen he did i wasnt so sure...and i dont wana tell him that i dont wanna...but i really dont know what to do..someone please...help?
2007-03-01 09:17:32 · 2 answers · asked by sk8erkat1210 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. condoms are not packaged in bags
2. sex is not unhealthy, quite the opposite
3. it's not necessarily the only thing he sees in girls, but yes, teenage boys are horny they're definitley going to be interested
4. whether or not you want to be sexually active is up to you and ONLY to you; but if you don't want to be, then you should probably stick to dating people who feel the same way, otherwise you will probably find yourself under pressure to do so, and cause a lot of frustration for theother person
If you really like this guy that much, and you do not awant to have sex, then just be very up front with him from the beginning that you have no intention of having sex with him and allow him the opportunity to back out if the's not interested. but it sounds to me like you should just skip it.
2007-03-01 09:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him, tell him you want to wait. If he really likes you for you he'll respect that. If he doesn't he's not worth your time.
2007-03-01 17:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Emmie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋