help with a broken heart?

Question

did you find anything that helped or any ways of dealing with the hurt. i know every body deals with stuff there own way, but any help or ideas will be greatfully recieved if speaking from experience or not.

thanks.

Answer 1

i found music helped, put on all your fave songs and all the songs that reflect revenge and the singer looking hot, close your eyes and imagine siging that soneg in a pub where he is at and imagine the jealousy on his face when he sees you dancing in sexy clothes and men gyrating over you, and stuff, and then the revenge songs, you can imagine how you will perform the song to him, it's wierd i know, but it's imagination so you can do whatever you want with it. but don't let the fantasy carry on for more than a month or it will become an obsession.

Answer 2

Go thru the pain as soon as poss.dnt put it 2 the bk of yr mind or get in2 annuva relationship just 2 ease the pain. Face it head on, remember all the good times, play the good tunes that remind u of the good times, put yrself thru the pain of missing them, dnt let it linger. The longer it went on 4 me the more it reflected on my future. i think when u truly love sum1 pain is the price u pay if it dnt wrk out. wen i felt the pain i went kind of numb so i didnt haveto feel it, but in the end it affected all of my feelings, dont do that, go thru it now n keep yr true feelings intact, even if it is just pain at the mo. The pain will go n u will still b whole again. As 4 getting over them u gotta b logical n think that if they dnt want u then theyr no good 4 u. i knw it sounds harsh, bt what use is it to u to have sum1 around who doesnt care about u. Also u cld do sum visualisation and imagine them very very small and the rest of the world very big, as thou they r very small in yr world - almost invisible. And it is tue that evrything in life is a lesson, so hurry up n get thru this 1 so u can get on with yr life, coz u never knw whats waitin 4 u around the corner.

Answer 3

There is only time and everyday will be a little easier. Try looking at the relationship, when you love someone, you never see the negative side, you need to look at that. Sometimes people love you for loving them, they take all your love and dont return love to you. Think about how great you are and that one day, you will be in a truly happy and loving relationship which will make you complete. Some experts say that its a month for every month you have been in that relationship. Your sun will shine again, I promise. Good luck

Answer 4

obviously you've been hurt. the ice-cream and good friends was a very good suggestion.. its also true about time being the best healer.. but mainly you got to remember that there are lots of other people, who'll see what a wonderful person you are, out there.. your friends and your family will be glad to have your attention back.. and go out more.. talk to people online.. dont sit thinking about it, occupy your mind as much as possible.. hope you feel better soon...

Answer 5

Nothing but time helps. How much time will depend on how you felt about the other person.
Sometimes a broken heart never heals. only gets covered over.

I know how your feeling, CRAP isnt it

Answer 6

i think that the busier you are the better things are to deal with, get yours mates out have fun meet new people and sure enough in no time you will be wondering what all the fuss is about and remember its them that is going to have lost out

Answer 7

You will get over it time is a great healer, you will feel annoyed by this you may have been told it already and will be again only it is true, sorry.

Answer 8

Get straight back out looking for someone who wants to be with you. Forget about her she is not hurting so why should you.

Answer 9

not sure there is any help. I'm still suicidal after 12+ years

Answer 10

broken hearted is part of growing up. nothing can heal the pain but TIME.