My father David (deceased) had a love child with a lady named Olive in 1970-1971, in Belfast, nth Ireland. I would love to meet my other brother or at least say hello. How would I find him with only this small amount of information. My mother knows more details, but I don't want to hurt her more.
2007-03-01 09:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by sunnygirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my father has a love child and all of my friends keep running into her. apparently she is the same age as me and looks just like me (obviously i look like my dad). i know her first name but not her last. i've always wanted to meet her but what would i say to her. she doesn't even know my father. i would say talk to your mother for more information. if you meet your brother she will find out and it will just hurt her more that you didnt' include her in the process. i would try to contact the vital statistics bureau in ireland and give them your father's name and see if he is on any birth records. if not then you can ask them to search for any kids born to an olive in that area during that time period. i know when i went digging through vital statistics they charged me either per page or per record so be prepared to pay for this service.
2007-03-01 09:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by griffin_1981 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think the only way to find your brother or sister would to get more information from your mother... You only have the first name of the mother and the years the child was born in.
2007-03-01 09:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by lilmissusa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know your brother, you would have to ask her for some information. A last name would help. If you don't want to hurt your mom, then leave it alone. But if you really want to know your brother, you are going to have to ask your mom to understand the need to know any family you may have. Just remember, maybe you are eager to meet him.... he may or may not feel the same. Just don't get your hopes up. He may have harbored ill feelings for your father.
2007-03-01 09:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking your uncles (father's brother) or ask your father's best friends for more details.
Try searching for any person with your father's last name in Belfast (hopefully it is an unique name).
2007-03-01 09:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by bobbino11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that you do not want to hurt your mother anymore but if tyou want to meet your other brother in Irelind that bad you should ask her for some information or asl someone else in your family that knows a bit. but als let your mother know that you love her very much and and are judt curious in meeting your long lost brother hope this helps GOOD LUCK and let me know how it turns out for you i hope you get to meet your brother
2007-03-01 09:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is an adult situation. If your Dad wanted you to know the child he would have arranged it before he passed on. Ask your Mom how she feels about you pursueing this situation. She may be upset.... but she has all the details .
2007-03-01 09:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
annie is it really you. I thought I never find you. I left Ireland a year ago and started a band called zac in twinky curls. Everything is just find email me.
hold on is this annie thompson fROM Baltimore, sorry wrong person?
2007-03-01 09:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go to belfast and find an office to check public records and find him....thats how my grandfather found all our relatives back in europe.
2007-03-01 09:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Testify 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't hurt her anymore than she is already hurt. Just ask her where you can find the kid!
2007-03-01 09:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel-san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found my fathers love child and boy was that a big mistake!!!! i would just leave things alone if i were you
2007-03-01 09:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋