ex and i broke up about 4 months ago and just recently he broke up w/ this other gal and now hes thinking bout going back out w/ me. then the other day my friend mentioned how it seemed as though he thought of me as a girl who will hook up w/ him whenver he says!!! i can't help but think its true that he may think i'm only single right now cuz he thinks i am only waiting 4 him!!! why r guys like this!?!?!
PLZ HELP HE MIGHT WANT ME BACK BUT I'M NOT SURE IF HE'S JUST USING ME!!!
Thanks
Kelse
2007-03-01 09:12:14 · 13 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your heart and don't worry about what your friends say so much. I used to listen to my friends, and my ex and I were on again, off again all the time. They kept telling me that he was using me, wasn't true to me, didn't really love me, etc. So, I moved on and got married and a lot of times I wonder how things would be now if I hadn't listened to my friends. I am happy, but I still wonder...
2007-03-01 09:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex boyfriend for a reason. Just don't let him get to you. Stay positive and tell him that the relationship is over and that you have moved on. Don't say it in a nasty tone, just let him know that is how you feel. If you do truly want to get back with him, that's your call, but my advice is to move on and find a guy who you are interested in and not settling for your ex boyfriend out of convenience.
2007-03-01 09:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~Mel~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why did you break up in the first place? and think about it dont just let him use you you are to smart for that and if he askes you out again say no make him wait and feel how you did or do and goout with someone else and they have way to big egos to see a girls feelings and no it wasnt long
2007-03-01 09:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by rizaluvsroy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys are like that
for the most part it is because they have this feeling that they need a girl all of the time
in other words he probally thinks of you as a girl with benafits
i had a girl that thought that she could hook up with me whenever she felt and i just had to put my foot down and tell her no
for the most part i think that he is using you as that girl that he can go to when he is single and when he finds someone else he will hook up with the other
i know lots of people like that
it is just messed up
2007-03-01 09:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys use us ladies to empower themselves in their own delussional world but sometimes we fall into their trap because we seem to let our feelings take over rather than our minds. im pregnant now from one of those guys and for 6months i thought we were the most perfect couple he made me happier than i have ever felt in a long time and he lead me to believe it was vice a versa until he just came home from work and packed his things one day for no apparent reason in the world and moved back with his ex with no explaination. no arguement no fights no disagreement or nothing ever. now he says he loves me but its hard to leave her after 6yrs even though he's not completly happy and he will give me another try when i have the baby! yeah really he will give ME another TRY! guys are funny I love him to death but i deserve better we all do so don't let play in and out with you untill he proves himself by playing by your rules and you make that decision when your mind knows its right along with your heart. THANKS FOR READING I HAD TO GET THAT OUT!!!
2007-03-01 09:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by painandlost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience (this happened to me too) This guy and i broke up and he had recently broke up wit this other girl and he told me he still had feeling for me! And i didnt know if i was his rebound
So wat i did was:
*When he asked me if i was wit sumone:
I said yes and made up a name (of coarse)
*When he said screw the other guy:
I told him tat i not leaving great guys for him
*When he asked me if i still liked him:
I said idk i really havent thought bout my feeling for u since ive been wit *and say his name*
And if the guy really wants u... he do all he can!
But if he really doesnt want u.... he will stop talking to u!
IF u need anything else email @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-01 09:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lad has been like that with me recently too. only he fancies me and i rejected him and he feels it's cause he's ugly etc and he's also turned on my friends and when i'm having fun e.g laughing or having a joke with my friends, he gives me dirty looks so it makes me feel guilty and makes me feel like i'm not worth anythiing and that i disgust him or something.
boys take things a bit personally, i'm afraid - but they aren't afraid of twisting your mind [making you confused].. coz im confused round any bloke nahh
2007-03-01 09:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't "hook up" with him ever! guys are so freakin conceited and boastful. my ex was just like that! argh. they would think that you're some freakin stupid girl that would hook up with him again because your still head-over-heels inlove with them. so by all means, don't hook up with him again.
2007-03-01 09:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rumba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop saying "why are guys like that" cuz not all guys are the same. second, once you break up with someone dont go back.
2007-03-01 09:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by nikeone2022 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't go out with him. he is just using you. he only wants you until he finds a new girl.
2007-03-01 09:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by BAMBI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋