me and my bf have been dating for a month now and i thought that everything was goin great until a few days ago whrn he started to ignore me and not walk with me in the halls at school. i strated to get concered and i didnt want to ask if he was mad at mr cause one of mt bff's had already asked him that a few days before and i didnt want him to get annoyed with me and dump me so i just let it go. i really like tis guy and i dont want to end my relationship with him. i knoe that im only 14 and they say that im to young for love but i think i do love him and weve known eachother for awhile now. he has alot of girls that are friends and i feel that im being pushed away. and today he told me that he was nad at mr then walked away with out tellin me why. i am really sad and i need help from someone now. i need someone to he[p me out with reltiondhips at a young age. :P thanx
2007-03-01 09:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by kellie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just know, it`s that feeling that you know it`s something wrong....
2007-03-01 09:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard for you to grasp, but a month is not a long time. You can't possible know someone in a month. If he is 14 then he is probably unsure, moody, going through some hormone changes, etc. So, if he wants to talk to you then talk to him, if not then back off and do your own thing. Don't ever chase a guy around, because "sweating" doesn't look good for girls. Good Luck with that. Trust me, he is not the last dude you will be interested in. Like Fergie says, " Boys just come and go like seasons.." lol :)
2007-03-01 09:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kellie, you are putting too much thought into this. Listen to yourself: You are saying you love a guy that won't even walk or talk with you? And you think he will just be annoyed if you ask him what's going on? You need to be more careful with who you trust with your heart. Your heart is all you've got. Do you think he deserves your feelings? I don't. And I know you don't want to hear this, but you are too young for this drama. Have fun, you still have years before you should be looking for true love. Enjoy being a kid, i know you enjoy those butterflies you get when you like someone and they like you back, everyone does. Burt it shouldn't be affecting you THIS much. You'll figure it out.
2007-03-01 09:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by The doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters.. Never have a friend butt between a realtionship between you and a guy..they can say whatever and may just ruin it.i dont trust friends because they always stab you and try to take your guy.theirs not many who wont stay out of the way.But since u had a friend talk it made it worse,when something as ur guy is upset with you..he shoudl talk to you. if he cant communicate with you then a realtionship cannot work out. i think your lusting..real love dont develop that fast..it takes long periods of time..its best to really know ur in love when u deeply feel it.like you know the deep love u have for ur parents or someone close within ur family.but for ur soulmate its deeper then that.you dont feel bubbly inside and u dont feel u ahve to with them all the time..because u feel safe and u feel many wonderful ways.Trust and communciatation is very important within a realtionship.if he wont talk to u..i woudl dump him if i was you.
2007-03-01 09:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off... calm down! This really isnt as serious as u think it is.
Wat i think u need to do is give him sum time to get over wat ever made him mad. *but not too much space to where he is going to break up* And i kno u probably dnt wanna hear this but the things he is doin (r signs tat break up is in the future) so just try and talk to him cuz i had the same thing happen to me and we ended of broken up so u mite just need to talk and work this out.
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2007-03-01 09:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get... don't get your friends involved cause they could end up with him (been there done that). If you are cool and act like hes not bothering you then he'll wonder why.... Make a guy work for your attention. Guys at that age have ADD for everything... They-re like squirrels!
2007-03-01 09:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by lowclearence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, young relationships move to fast and rarely last long at all, enjoy life,, go out and have and not worry about having a boyfriend, soon enough you can be miserable like 60 percent of the married people out there,
2007-03-01 09:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys don't have a good, no great communication line then it obviously isn't working out. Also, never, and I repeat never, get your friend to do your dirty work(talking to your BF about relationship problems)!!!!!
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2007-03-01 09:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by kirstin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably should just dump him before he dumps you and because he's ignoring you in the halls.
2007-03-01 09:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by foshizRAWR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young for this drama, get over it or dump him.
2007-03-01 09:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him why he's mad at you. if you don't know why he's mad at you, odds are you didn't do anything or he's overreacting.
2007-03-01 09:05:54 · answer #11 · answered by she who is awesome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋