been on a few dates with this bloke really nice but if an attractive girl walks past he looks over, it really makes me insecure. do all men do this it makes me feel he would rather be with someone els,or am i just being paraniod
2007-03-01 08:58:43 · 8 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both, guys are programmed to look at other women. It's not really a big deal, but women seem to think it is.
2007-03-01 09:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by jtcampbell1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've tried to clear this question up, but it's a recurring nightmare, like hairballs from a cat!
Men are visually stimulated animals; we look at parts, not the overall woman unless we're in the market. And then we look at parts and THEN the overall woman! Unfortunately, the women we're with tend to internalize this behavior although it has NO reflection upon them. As a matter of fact, women do it too, though a little more on the sly...men just aren't as sneaky or subtle.
Try and remember: men are simple creatures: we hunt when hungry, sleep when tired and mate when the need arises. Any interruption of those basic needs and you'll get bad results. And, civilization creates impediments...
2007-03-01 17:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural and instinctive for guys to look at other women. It's a physical response. It really shouldn't be a big deal unless he is being rude about it. Just a casual glance is natural, but if he is staring while he is with you...that's another story all together. That's disrespectful of present company.
2007-03-01 17:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rare when you find a guy that won't, i know it has to do with they way they are raised. I'm one of the guys, i was raised by old traditional people, and a world war 2 vet. If i'm on a date or with a girl I have no choice but to remain loyal and not disrespect her in any shape, manner or form. There are not many like us. raised by old people. I've learned though because of this i have been taken advantage of a great deal.
2007-03-01 17:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it sometimes make me insecure when we're out on a date, and you're checking out other blokes.
2007-03-01 17:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by ........ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, thats instinct. Guys ALWAYS look at girls. Checking them out etc. Don't get insecure, coz what he looks, dosen't get to his heart. Stops at the brain like me. But what is in the heart is the person I like and the person i'm dating.
2007-03-01 17:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by ian@blueice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do this, but a lot do. You have to decied if can learn to over look it, or mention it to him. If he doesn't stop move on.
2007-03-01 17:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is with you, he is there to be with you not someone else. be secure in yourself
2007-03-01 17:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by chemreaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋