Iam a 18 year old girl and me and my friend go clubbing nearly every weekend.Even though iam prettier than her(not being arrogant but people always say so)she has more confidence and talkative.Guys always seem to talk to her first or get with her.Why?Do they see her as easy,she does flirt.She has always got a man in her life even though she has boyfriend.Don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys but i don't understand how that happens?This ever happen to you girls?
2007-03-01 08:56:43 · 29 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
st phallus,how would you know that?You haven't seen me you ******* idiot
2007-03-01 09:06:08 · update #1
God is this girl not allowed to say she is pretty before she gets a load of abuse?
At least your honest!
Dont worry about it, the man of your dreams will one day turn up in all his glory.
Wait and see :-)
2007-03-01 09:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to think its whats upfront that counts. She doesn't necessarily have to be easy because she attracts people. Forget about her and concentrate on whats best about you. Get that right in your own head and hopefully others will be able to spot it for themselves. Also the fact she knows she already has a boyfriend could give her confidence, not like she needs to pick up a guy. Doesn't make her a nice person in my opinion though. You're 18, its all in front of you. Just enjoy it. xx
2007-03-01 09:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by tara_365 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence shows big time. If she's putting herself out there, she will get more responses from more people. Strive to be more social and more "I'm the bestest out there" and you'll get there too. You can be the next Angelina and people won't notice you if you are lacking in confidence and being a wallflower. Ever see the fugly girls with the hot guys that we all wonder what in the heck they're thinking? These girls are confident in who they are and it shows. And that's appealing to guys.
2007-03-01 09:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, your beautiful. Many beautiful girls get the raw end of the deal due to the reputation of rejections. That's just the way it is and it turns out that beautiful girls like you have to choose the man you find most desirable. You shouldn't care about your girlfriend, in fact you should be happy for her because girls are always down when they are alone and don't have a companion.
Enjoy the company of your friend and go catch the man of your choosing.
Stay beautiful Latina and don't pay any attention to the rude responses your getting from those who answered your question.
Sincerely,
SuperDave.
2007-03-01 09:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It could be her confidence she may appear to be more of a people person so it may be the reason why guys go to her first. Another reason could be that guys are intimidated and think you'll either be stuck up or they might not be your type so that don't even bother trying.
2007-03-01 09:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by be55tlloka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are prettier, just give the guys a picture of yourself. One picture is 1000 words, so you don't need to say anything. Your friend shows interest in what they guys have to say rather than talking about herself. You could learn a lot from her.
2007-03-01 09:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is a flirt who just prob attracts the wrong type of guy. They prob just see her a easy and then when they've got enough of it they leave her. That's why you need to just carry on being you and when you get a guy it will be someone who really likes you and doesn't just expect to get you into bed. be yourself and let your friend carry on as she is, you will come off better than her in the end.
2007-03-02 01:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think us guys can just sense who has that "salsa" lol You know what I mean?? Maybe you appear stuck up or something and she is more outgoing. Is this the case? Are you really quiet when you go out? If you want to get the attention then just watch your friend and steal her moves ;)
2007-03-01 09:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Young Sebi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe they talk to her cos they feel comfortable with her personality wins every time,and to be honest you sound a bit shallow and jealous if you go on thinking this way you could end up losing a good friend,get over it lifes too short girl
2007-03-01 09:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by lees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. We can sense when a girl thinks she is prettier so we feel more comfertable talking to the un-up her self, down to earth friendly person.
2007-03-01 09:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋