2007-03-01 08:52:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did this to yourself.....
You're going to have to live with it now.
2007-03-01 08:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to your boyfriend (future husband now) and start planning what to do. If you are underage and he is an adult, he is in deep $hit with the law and you must decide if to tell anybody who is the father. If both of you are underage, then you need to get help from your parents or from the government.
And if you are thinking about abortion, let me ask you this: are you willing to kill your baby because of you and your boyfriend being stupid and retarded and not using protection? And even if you did, you knew the risks, as there is no 100% effective protection. So still it is your fault.
I don’t agree with abortion, or to give the baby away. I think both you and your boyfriend should take care of your mistakes. Running away will only make each of you a worse person in life. Welcome to the real world.
There are many ways to be a young couple and have a baby. Nothing is impossible. But you will have to make many but many many sacrifices, and so will he. But just by looking into your baby’s eyes one day, you will think that it was worth it.
I hope you two can stay together, and take care of that baby. But is up to you, and him, to decide what to do. Just make sure is the right decision or you might be sorry for the rest of your life.
Again, welcome to the wonderful world of being an adult.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 17:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u? If u were in my family and under 15 I'd same to get an abortion. Older than that you are responsible enough to know what you were doing, and should at least have the baby, even if that means adoption. It's not easy, there have been lots of unwanted kids in my family, including me. All I can say is Im glad to be here. Hope you understand in spite of the nervous pressure you're having. Good luck hon.!
2007-03-01 16:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! I assume you didn't run this by the parents since you are on Yahoo Answers. You have some serious, life altering decisions to make. You need to open your mouth and ask for help. Not only are you dealing with your own s***... now there is a precious child in the picture. Reach out Honeychild...
2007-03-01 16:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by fatbabyceesay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I hate to ask...but...did you use protection? Do you want to keep the baby? How old are you? Will you be able to support the kid?
Back when I was 18-25, if I ever got pregnant, I wouldn't keep it. But now that I'm older and I'm in a stable relationship, I would keep the baby if I got pregnant. But I'm using birth control so hopefully that won't be an issue.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 16:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your parents or someone that you can trust. Find out what is best for you and the baby. If you don't want to keep the baby consider adoption - Good Luck to you in you decisions!
2007-03-01 16:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the guy above me...if you knew you couldn't handle the consquences then why did you have unprotected sex? Welp, you can get an abortion or have the baby and put it up for adoption or if you really feel you can take care of it, then keep it. Choice is yours.
2007-03-01 16:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 option. keep the child and love it or give the child up to a family who will love it. It all depends on how mature you feel you are. If you choose to give the child away you can pick the family you want your child to go to.. this is in my opinion the less selfish option is adoption
2007-03-01 16:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Annie: Mommy to Sid and Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i would talk 2 sumone you trust and see what they think is best and then put in your iwn opinion...thhis is a tiny soul inside of you and you have to take care of it ...also u might wnat to see a doctor too id u only took a home pregnanct test...well i hope this helps...
2007-03-01 17:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh..you mean right after u DID it..u ended up pregnent? dang. cooool
2007-03-01 16:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by tSk1LLz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him then if he agrees to letting you have the baby go ahead but DONT get an abortion
2007-03-01 16:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by sqip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋