I've been hearing stuff about my boyfriend going out with this girl named Stephanie: he swares up and down he only loves me and that he would never like her: he talks about her in a bad way:
How do I know if he's cheating on me or not?
2007-03-01 08:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. Tasha Bieber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they speak of a girl in a bad way its a front . They will dog her to make you think he would never think of it or do it . Most likely the people with the rumor are telling the truth . To solve it find Steph . GOOD LUCK !
2007-03-01 08:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A list I swear by:
1. Red flags keep popping up.
2. Doesn't answer his phone.
3. Makes lame excuses as to why he doesn't answer his phone.
4. Lies and you catch them.
5. Inconsistencies in his stories.
6. Vagueness or not clear in what his intentions are.
7. Turns things around on you as being the problem.
8. Lip stick on his shirt, or the smell of someone elses perfume.
9. Wants to go out without you, and won't give you specifics on what he is doing.
10. Constantly on his computer and has several, different email accounts...players do this to spread themselves out.
11. Someone calls when you're with him and he won't take the call in your presence...definate sign that he's hiding something.
12. You find him profiled on a sleazy site, or find him writing to other girls.
13. Doesn't follow through on what he tells you.
14. Has secrets and when you ask about something become defensive.
*Hire an investigator or have him followed. Find out the truth.
People that live a life of lies are usually really good at it.
And, have mastered the techniques..be smarter than them.
2007-03-01 16:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get down to the truth is to get to the source of these rumors and get the facts. Go with your boyfriend and talk with this girl name Stephanie, if he refuses then there is your answer.
2007-03-01 17:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy talks badly about the girl its because he is just making an excuse he is trying to get you to believe him. Find a way to talk to her and ask her upfront. I think you have a cheater.
2007-03-01 17:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you trust him or not. Seems you are the one with a problem, he probably needs to dump you and find a good trusting girlfriend.
2007-03-01 16:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound corny but :D
Get someone to "spy" on them and get a clear conversation,
if it is true he is cheating (Wich i hope not) confront him
if no hang with him more
2007-03-01 16:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Alexander S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating. Don't believe him.
2007-03-01 16:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you go down on him you might taste her.
2007-03-01 16:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you find him with legs wrapped around his head that aren't yours...he may be contemplating it
2007-03-01 16:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋