Is there any way to question God or religion without being arrogant?

Question

The word "arrogant" is a tool of intimidation amongst the religious. We all detest arrogant people, or are trained to anyway.

ARROGANCE is almost like the word "pedophile", in that, the moment someone slaps it upon you, know one else cares to examine whether it fits, the stigma or perception is immediate.

When we question God or religion, in front of the religious, how can we do this without being arrogant, after all, what more arrogant that questioning God!

Theres simply no way to do it with out being arrogant. If I smile and talk kindly, I am condescending, the worst form of arrogance. The major religions all have verses that condemn disbelievers and engender hatred for them.

In Islam, to be called "arrogant" is almost like a death sentence, your biding your time. Its a word of intimidation, thus wiser people hesistate to open their mouths and the circle of ignorance perpetutates.

Answer 1

To question God in private seems quite easier than in public. I feel I could quickly be labeled as "the enemy" or that I could erode the faith of others if I question publicly.

I question God not because of arrogance but because of doubts, misunderstandings, and lack of knowledge, or knowledge of the corrupt.

I take comfort knowing I'm not alone. Believers throughout the ages are documented to have questioned God and asked for or demanded signs.

I do so wish I had a group of competent seekers with whom I could question my faith openly and not be given pat "the bible tells me so" answers.

Answer 2

and yet, in the Bible, Job, Noah and Lot all question God - negotiate with God, and win concessions to their position.