I've been in a long term relationship. Sex used to be great. Now for over a year, he will not have sex. He masturbates in the shower. He won't touch me anymore. Will you please help me ??
2007-03-01 08:36:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
It used to be great because it was new and exciting. You have to make it that way again. People become used to something and take it for granted. You have to spark it up by trying something new. Show him something he's not used to. In the shower he is obviously creating something new in his mind. It's up to you to create that "something new" in the bedroom.
2007-03-09 06:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by prophetn8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the road....find a nice guy. I admit sex is important for any adult (or anyone), but you must learn to do worldly things first. Worry about your health if anything, what about your education??? An erection lasts for a minute, and thats all he is....something hard to get along with. Look around, live life. Forget this moron.
2007-03-08 13:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, you have to talk to him. We can all speculate what it might be, but he's the only one that knows for sure.
Don't automatically think it's you. He might be having some issues and he needs someone to talk with. You have to take the first step -- but approach him lovingly and when he seems like he's in a good mood. Don't get defensive. As I said, it might be more the way he feels about himself than the way he feels about you.
2007-03-01 08:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by shanequinox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, I would think that there is more than meets the eye, perhaps you should sit him down and ask him what has changed, has he moved on, or is struggling with something. Really dear, talk to him, let him know you are lonely and miss the times you used to share. good luck
2007-03-01 08:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure hes not havn affair???if not then does he have physical or emotional issues?depression can play a huge role, but u need to discuss this with ur mate.if u dont think he will be honest, then u may need to do ur own detective work.hope it works out before u are forced to go elsewhere for the attention u need.
2007-03-01 08:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Aanje' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a new lover my dear. Accept it and dump him. For some reason he doesn't want to be intimate with you any more. If it bothers you then stop the relationship. You will eventually heal.
2007-03-08 11:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ FairLady ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he is not having affiar , you need to talk to him because your the only one thta can do that . it may be a issue with him. or is the relationship worth saving. this is all up to you .to decide , good luck
2007-03-08 07:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by beth b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't agonize over this matter any longer. You need to just come right out & ask him what's wrong. Assure him that you can handle the truth, whatever it may be.
2007-03-09 03:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you catch him looking at porn on the computer alot? It could be thAT he is addicted to porn hun.
2007-03-08 09:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by dodfish99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to find more creative ways to arouse his interest, read more books
2007-03-08 12:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by mizz_car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋