I grew up in a house where their where both, My mom was loving and sweet and never spanked us, but my dad was the one who did all the spanking, but he never showed my affection. But because my mom show'd that affection I turned out to be a pretty good child. But their is apart of me that wish my dad was more loving, for a minuted I couldn't stand him. Because its like the only time I saw him, he was mad.
So I'm closer to my mother, but I do respect them both.
2007-03-01 08:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I think it is better to spoil and disipline. But the spoiling needs a limit, but I think it is fine to spoil your children once in a while. But always show them love and affection! But disipline is definitely needed. Children need to be punish when they had done something wrong, they need to learn.
2007-03-01 08:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disipline and love not spoiled... Every parents is different rise they kids.. My parents were different they my mom is the disiplline one and my dad was the good dad... i am not that love from my mom because mostly disipline on me then my older brother... And i turn out pretty good a child and teenager.. but Sometime I donot like to see my mom she bugs me.. but she is my mom...
I think giving love to the child then spoiled child.. Because I am kind of spoiled by my grandparents.. I guess we were the youngest grandchild and was the first...
Every parent has they own way to raise they child... I would not spoiled my kids i would explain to them that i love them and i am not going to spoiled..
And Disipline is when they make mistake..
2007-03-01 17:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by babyg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to discipline and not spoil. Kids need to understand the importance of money and hard work. Kids that grow up spoiled, have a harder time appreciating what money they do make, and have a harder time adjusting to real life.
2007-03-01 23:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There needs to be a balance. My parents were the same was as yours and I turned out pretty well.
There are going to be times when you can't stand your parents. It's normal. But the fact that you respect them both says they did something right!
2007-03-01 16:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say both parents need to make it a team effort and spoil and discipline their kids. no extremes to the good or bad, and not one parent doing all the loving or disciplining.
2007-03-01 16:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To each their own. However, in my opinion there needs to be a balance.
My wife and I both discipline, but we are different. But we both also show affection.
2007-03-01 16:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by El Gato Volador 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with spoiling. Forget about discipline.
2007-03-01 20:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lori 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
to be honset do both disipline but let ur kid know that u luv dem u kno
2007-03-01 16:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you spoil em when they do good....discipline them when they are bad... now you dont necesarily have to spank em.... either parent.. and both should show affection!!
2007-03-01 16:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by c t 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disipline and not spoil because if you spoil a kid it grows up to be a snobbish brat.
2007-03-01 17:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋