My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and we've known each other since high school (over 5 years). His exgirlfriend still thinks that there's a chance of them getting back together and her and her friends do things like leaving him messages on myspace saying they love him and can't wait to see him and her calling him all the time, esp. when she knows we're hanging out. I know he's not actually hanging out with them because when he's not working or at school we're hanging out. I'm just tired of them trying to manipulate their way back into his life and him away from me. I really love him but I want to know how to get it to stop...or if love is even worth dealing with them. Any advice?
2007-03-01 08:23:04 · 4 answers · asked by miss_stacey1984 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ooohhh, this stumbles me....More like it makes me ask you what is more important. In my eyes, these girls are doing it constantly because of a reaction he's giving them. I'm not saying he's hanging out with them or he's back with his ex, but there's some underlying behavior he's giving them that gets them to do it over and over again. Maybe if you try asking him to ask them to back off, if he's willing them stick with it and see what happens in the long run. If he objects or uses excuses as to why he won't ask them to back off, then you might want to consider moving on. There are toooo many fish in the sea to deal with all that. If he cares about you enough, he'd consider it and eventually tell them to back off. But again this is a personal thing you have to decide on. I wish you the best of luck and if you can email me and let me know what happens.
2007-03-01 08:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only advice I can offer is this........IF u mean as much to him as he means to u he can BLOCK those idiots on myspace and stop the harassment. If u are not that important to him u need to move on. This is HIS problem to take care of.....not yours!!!!
Good Luck to u!!!
2007-03-01 16:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS THAT THE PROBLEM LIES WITH THEM, NOT HIM. IF HE WANTED TO BE WITH HER, HE WOULDN'T BE WITH YOU. HAVE YOU CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL? ADDRESS THE ISSUE IN A LOW KEYED MANNER. BUT LET HIM KNOW THAT IT DOES BOTHER YOU. HE SOUNDS LIKE HE'S ABOUT SOMETHING OR HE WOULDN'T BE DOING WHAT HE'S DOING. IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR HIM, DEAL WITH IT. THERE MUST BE A REASON WHY SHE'S AN "EX". GOOD LUCK AND STAY PATIENT!
2007-03-01 16:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by MS. PEG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one who has to stop the harrassment by telling them to back off and blocking them too. There's nothing you can do really.
2007-03-01 16:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋