i have been talking to this guy on instant messenger a lot. he doesnt have to much experience with girls. but i dont have to much with guys, either. he knows that i like him, and i know that he likes me. i think the next step is to talk to him in person more. he goes to my school and i have 2 classes with him. but i dont really know how to talk to him in person very well.
on instant messenger, we talk about everything. but in person we both get embarrassed and have a lot of awkward silences. how do i talk to him in person better? how do i act around him and his friends when i see them in the hallway? what do i do? please help me.
this guy is amazing and i really dont want to screw this up. i want us to be more comfortable with eachother before we go out. PLEASE HELP!!
2007-03-01 08:17:59 · 6 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, since you asked “how you act” let me answer that first:
DO NOT ACT!!!
Just be yourself. Don’t think about how ot act, or what would they say or think. Just be yourself.
If you are alone with him, look at his eyes, make physical contact, like touch his hand, or even better grab his hand. And always smile, and if any of you do something “stupid” just laugh about it and don’t pay attention to it.
If you two get to feel more comfortable with each other, things will be better and the “tension” will go down. If you don’t know what to talk about, then think of anything you were talking about before when chatting on the computer, and that both of you were interested into.
From there, things should flow. And hopefully he will also be more relaxed and be able to talk freely with you.
Don’t worry too much about it, good luck, and have fun!!
2007-03-01 08:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. He should be the same person that you talk to on the net. If he acts different and does not want to talk to you around his friends or cannot take if his friends pick at him then he is not who you really thought he was. It is normal what you fear but the more you talk to him the more you will realize that it was just another fear of nothing.
2007-03-01 16:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was stuck int he eXACT same situation, when I finally met her up in person as "more than friends," I said to her, we're better chatters online huh?She said yeah, we smiled, and after that, we both let loose. Maybe the environment helped. You guys should go get a couple of drinks, grab dinner, just speak whatever comes to you mind, be yourselves, and you guys will be fine.
2007-03-01 16:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself Honeychild... Be assertive and just calm down. This is not a life altering situation... it's just a conversation...
2007-03-01 16:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by fatbabyceesay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourselfand put everything behind and take it slow dont go real fast and just act like its just yopu two and no1 else
2007-03-01 16:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by lovxux4ever1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and make urself talk once u get over that first akwardness u will be fine trust me
2007-03-01 16:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by misslovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋