My teacher had told me to come and talk with a student "who was my friend" about there interactions they had with me and I didn't say or do anything he thinks I am mad at him all the time when I don't answer right away ( I say I don't want to and she says I am the teacher and the boss so you need to come right now before I write you up I was so calm about it but in my head I was like shut the **** up and leave me alone and when she asked me again I said calmly I don't want to and so she said I give up and said I will be in trouble and like all of the rest of the teachers agreed with me and none of them like her either because she is mean at times and controlling.)
2007-03-01 08:08:31 · 10 answers · asked by scottsmith20 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Sounds like it is none of her business unless you are truly interfering with this other kid's life.
Teacher needs a life... start putting secret admirer notes on her desk to distract her from such petty issues as the one you described.
2007-03-01 14:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That teacher was not absolutely correct...
A really dear cousin of mine would always ask me what part I had to play in anything I had a problem with. I hated his even thinking I did anything to do with any problem! But he was right.
Even a bad attitude about one thing, we sometimes allow to leak over somewhere else. Maybe all that teacher felt was your anger, and somehow decided she knew where it was going.
When we think "shut up", "shut the f*** up" or anything along those lines that is anger. Simple and straight like that. Check your anger, don't play yourself by allowing that leak.
And if you can get it together to even say to those folks that although they were wrong you have considered what was bothering you and attended to it...if they are real you'll get some real respect.
Peace.
2007-03-01 16:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by ink! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this "interaction" affecting your classwork? Is it disruptive to the class in any way? If not then I don't see why the teacher is concerned with it unless "your friend" asked for help. If you have been disruptive in the class the teacher is probably just trying to solve the problem. This is preventing her from doing her job, which is teaching.
If you are genuinely not mad at "your friend" the best thing to do would be to take this person aside and have a friendly conversation with them. Tell them that's just your personality.
2007-03-01 16:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the teacher was trying to show the other student what happens when life goes on like it has for you. "You make no sense, sound like you don't know what you're talking about, are going around in circles with words, are mean at times, and try to control what others think!"
2007-03-01 20:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are bullying or being some other sort of destructive person, then yah, she has a right to do something about it. If she doesn't get anywhere with you then counselors or the principal should address it.
She's covering her bum because the other person keeps bringing the issue to her. Why don't you settle with the troublemaker friend directly unless you really are a bully?
2007-03-01 16:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't really understand your question very well.
Could you rephrase it?
What I am getting is that the teacher wants you to talk with another student, who is your friend, and what interaction you had with your friend, in front of her?? Are you and your friend not on speaking terms??
Not sure if it is any of her business.
2007-03-01 16:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a situation like that you are to immediately take this to your parents. I know this might sound chessy or punkish, but when your mother or father comes to the school and addresses the issue to the teacher, that is extremely intimidating to the him/her. Or, go to your principal, they have the power to suspend and FIRE teachers, so when you express you concern to the principal, he /she will abruptly walk to the teachers class, tear up his/her paycheck and say pack your stuff and go work at a food market. Try it, one of them or both will work(and be very dramatic).
2007-03-01 16:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom Is Key 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your teacher, "This is not a conversation that I am comfortable having without my parents here. If you want me to discuss this with you, you'll have to invite my parents to participate too." If she actually calls your parents (chances are good she won't) then they can give her a piece of their mind for wasting your time and their time!
2007-03-01 17:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never seen that many run on sentences with only one period before. What good is an education if you don't use it?
2007-03-01 16:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are talking to fast in your typing it seems difficult to figure what you are talking about.
2007-03-01 16:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by sara w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋