I am 6 months pregnant well me and my boyfriend have been doin good until the other day he found out that when I first got pregnant I was talking to another guy (on the phone only) it wasn't nothing sexual it was just a hey how you doin thing well he broke up with me and told me that he was so hurt I understand that alot and things and just to mention when I did talk to the other guy me and him were having problems and we weren't together but that don't make this any better I have tried everything from I'm sorry to everything I just need some advice to what to do I know I messed up and I shouldn't have done it but I want my family and I want him I don't want anybody else please help!
2007-03-01 07:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by angel2gurl19 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Ok, I'm gonna be honest with you. There are many examples of a guy saying he will be there for you while your having the baby, and as the due date gets closer he begins to flake out. I personally believe you are having a case of this. So the only thing you can do is try to explain what happend between you and the other guy, and offer to get a paternity test once the baby is born. If he is trying to break up with you over a couple of phone calls, then there must be some deeper issues at hand. So be strong, try to fight for him, but if all else fails know that you and your baby will get through this.
2007-03-01 08:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should trust you if he did than I'm sure there wouldn't be so much of a problem with you only having a conversation with another guy there is nothing wrong with that try to talk to hI'm if he really does love you and the baby im sure it may just take a bit for him to realize how much you really do mean to him and what hes lost for now give it time and let it work itself out good luck!
2007-03-01 08:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mess up-he must be an idiot if you can't even have a phone conversation.if he is this controlling he will get worse over time. the first thing abusive people do is isolate you from everyone else so they can control you. Be careful you may be better off without him.
2007-03-01 08:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, i'm the equivalent age as you and this same component happens to me for all time. in basic terms a pair od days interior the previous my buddy asked me to return on a reunion with some critical college buddies that i hadn't sen in 4 years, i grow to be out with them for roughly 3 hours and that i swear to you i did no longer say greater desirable than 5 phrases, and it extremely is unlike i did no longer have in spite of to declare, i might have enjoyed to catch up, in spite of the undeniable fact that each and every time i attempted to communicate i in basic terms felt like an incredible knot in my abdomen so i close up. Yep they theory i grow to be unusual lol, once I gained abode i in basic terms wanted to break evey component in my room. My propose,what i'm engaged on now's that as today as you found out which you're approximately to go into an interpreting degree, gradual down, experience approximately who you're with, are they close acquaintances? if it extremely is the case then you extremely isn't questioning approximately each and each pass you're making once you're with them. in the event that they are no longer then think approximately to comprehend which you're in basic terms human and while you're making blunders it in basic terms way you're doing the human ingredient ok =D, you do no longer ought to get to my function the place you would be waiting to be questioning what might have got here approximately once you will been brave sufficient to declare something. As a nicely known guy consistently says 'greater useful out than in' :) wish this helps you :)
2016-11-26 22:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by pirozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with this idiot boyfriend ?
Why do young people get pregnant without thinking first ?
I will bet you don't have a job or an education.
You write and sound like a child yourself.
Why, Why, Why ?
Am I going to support your child ?
2007-03-01 11:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cammie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have gotten pregnant until you were first married.
Maybe next time you won't treat your boyfriends as badly as you treated the father of this child - assuming he is the father.
2007-03-01 08:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋