How would u get your best friend love soulmate known all ur life in love 5 years to marry you as they want to but something is holding back.When u dont know if commitment phobia or some silly reason.Everyone please tell how would u get ur best friend love soulmate to marry u?No getting knocked up.Serious best answer 10points.
2007-03-01 07:44:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every man whether he admits it or not wants a best friend good wife who loves and family.Intimacy is bonus.So make it happen.
2007-03-01 07:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force this person to marry you.
Maybe they do want to spend the rest of their life with you. Maybe they want to raise kids with you and grow old with you and die with you... and maybe they don't. For the sake of the question, I'm going to assume they do want to be with you - although you should make sure they do before you go questing for a marriage certificate.
Consider this - maybe they simply don't want to be married yet? I know people (an alarming number, by the way) who honestly believe you shouldn't get married or have kids until you are 30! And that's not even for religious reasons, that's just the way they think or were raised. If you really want this person in a forever way, be patient. You have the rest of your lives to commit, so there's no point rushing it. Yeah, 5 years may seem like long enough for you, but maybe it isn't for them?
Example: my best friend is my fiancee. We've been engaged to be married for almost 2 years. Seem strange? We haven't settled on a date, and we don't see a need to force one. We will get legally married when we feel like it. It's just a piece of paper... we already have forever in our hearts.
Take your time, and love this person with everything you are. Give to them, expecting nothing in return. Good luck.
2007-03-01 07:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by vengerofthelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea to have a spouse that's not only a partner, but a friend as well. You know what your love likes, you know what makes them love you. Be patient. Love takes time. Don't rush into something you think you want....the best may be yet to come. Intimacy gets bonus points. Doing the small things is a wonderful idea. Don't be pushy. Just let your love and how much you care shine through your desire to get married. Good luck.
2007-03-01 07:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by EvilLaughingLeprachaun08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Well you could manipulate someone but why would you want to? If you have been with this person for 5 years and they haven't married you yet they probably never will. Are we talking about a man? I have heard that a good rule is that if he hasn't asked in a year; move on. Sorry I don't have the answer you are looking for but really, why would you want to "get" someone to marry you?
2007-03-01 07:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by redflite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person that you are in love with him/her.
Tell the person EXACTLY how you feel.
Tell the person that everything will be alright so there is no need to fear.
Tell the person he/she completes and complements your world.
Do your best in every way to assure him/her that you are for real.
Finally, if you don't know how to pray, start to pray now, pray that as the relationship commences that God will give the two of you the strength to work whatever it is out and to work whatever may come out.
I wish you all the best.
2007-03-01 07:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself why you want to be married. If it is for children (probably theonly good reason), have that conversation with yor man. Ask him if he wants children and when... You need to have this conversation with someone before you marry them anyway, so have it now.
2007-03-01 07:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him an ultimatum. Either he sets a date to get married or it's over. There's no other way and you have to mean it.
2007-03-01 07:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with something big, something that says marry ME! proposing is usually good too....Good LUCK
2007-03-01 07:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u start asking her out on a date first?
2007-03-01 07:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by 1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of the worry and you'll get it.
2007-03-01 07:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋