why is it that we fall in love with the people that are no good for us? And we know there arn'y but we chose to love them anyway? Cheating, lies and we still feel a love for them? what is so hard about moving from someone horrible?
2007-03-01 07:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Generally, we fall in love with someone who is 'bad' for us because we are trying to 'punish ourselves' for some reason, or because we feel that we don't 'deserve to be properly loved.' It's OK to do that, but only if you can 'learn and grow' and can eventually find that one 'perfect person' for you.
2007-03-01 07:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I feel your pain. I know what it is to be forgiving, be loyal, an awsome woman and lover and still be betrayed by the one person you trust the most. Is hard for me to answer that for you but certainly I think that there is a lot of men that are deserving a chance. I also think that we need to give ourselves abreak from tye stressing over them. For some reason you and me both.. have a certain kind of love for these individuals but I can guarantee you sweetie that when you start asking others for an opinion it means you are almost through.. not done but almost...
2007-03-01 15:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kaykee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, we fall in love because we love what we THINK WE SEE and what we THINK THEY ARE. Then, once we find out they are really cheaters and liars, well, we're in too deep to just walk out. It's called being human and we all play the fool sometimes. It's hard moving on because we have developed an attachment to them. And only time will ease the hurt. Good Luck.
2007-03-01 16:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like candy we like the wrapper which is the outer appearance, but what's inside we don't need. You got to condition yourself to talk to the guy who respects you and is nice to you and does not say mean things. Not the guy who looks good or drive the best car or has more money. These type of guys know or think they have a hold on us females.
2007-03-01 15:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mofabolist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because we don't want to be alone. But I'm telling you that you will get tired of it and one day you will find someone who is really incredible. I guarantee it.
2007-03-01 15:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because deep down u still love them but u dont want to admit it.
2007-03-01 15:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just dont want to be alone! So yea
2007-03-01 15:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋