Heres how the story goes Me & my m8 met last yr thru a store that he now manages & I usually shop in & Overtime we've become quite close We share our things with each other like CDs,books etc, we enjoy each others company he makes me feel comfortable & safe He turns 2 me 4 opinions he remembers little things I say & like & vice versa Hes very open with me Hes always happy 2 c me & vice versa When I say\give him sumthing like a book\CDs he always says oh u just made my day we're both writers he enjoys my books i write & Yes I have feelings 4 him more then u cud imagine I havent been sleeping well. Ive tried avoiding him (this is once i found out how I felt abwt him) but that didnt wrk i tried moving with other guys I even tried forcing myself 2 move on with another guy but that most certainly did nt wrk & I've tried convincing myself it'll go away well yknw how that went I do like & care about him alot there is an age gap im 21 & hes 28 but IDC age doesnt bother me @ all
Please help
2007-03-01 07:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're just friends right? Ive been trying 2 convince myself that for the passed few months now. Only cause I guess I'm afraid of what I feel. I havent told him though... just when I think Im moving on he captures my heart again.... Im stuck Ive also tried burying myself into work & well again that didnt work?
Any advice would be great. I love eveything about him he makes feel so carefree I think thats what I love the most about him and the fact that hes honest with me Id trust him with my life if i had 2. lol There is seriously something wrong with me isnt there?
2007-03-01 07:46:07 · update #1
Oh we're both single if you guys wanted 2 knw
2007-03-01 07:47:55 · update #2
No niether of us is married lol we're both scared of marriage lmao. But yknw when we find the right one then yknw we'll consider it.
Thanx 2 all of you's who have answered or still is. much appreciated
2007-03-01 08:30:55 · update #3
im 18 and my bf is 31. go for it age is nothing. and im sure he likes you too. go for it now before someone else realizes how great he is and snatches him up. i would rather do it and maybe get hurt then spend my life wondering.
good luck!
2007-03-01 07:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, if you literally want to sleep better. Go buy over the counter benadryl allergy. (The pink pills) and take 2 an hour before bed time. It usually has no side effects, and you dont become dependant on it. I take it still when i know i wont be able to sleep.
Secondly, dont avoid him. It'll only make things worse. Confront him, talk to him about it. You obviously know him well enough to confide in him. So do that exactly. Confide in him. Tell him how you feel. You'll never know if he feels the same unless you talk to him about it.
2007-03-01 15:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by contact_nickhmusic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Just let him know how you feel. It sounds like you are afraid to change your friendship into something else, and maybe ruin what you have. He could be feeling the same way, knowing how you both feel for eachother will clear the fog. As far as the age gap, 7 years is nothing.
2007-03-01 15:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this man isn't married , then I see no reason for you not to go on a date with him. If he hasn't asked you, then ask him if he would like to come over for dinner and see some of your writings. If he is married then you will only be hurt or hurting someone else.
2007-03-01 15:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋