How do i spice up my sex life with my boyfriend?

Question

He has loads of ideas, and im quite open minded within reason, but i want an idea of my own!! Help

Answer 1

Just go to some Indian store and buy some spices lol...

Answer 2

I could swear I answered something similar recently...

While it's sweet that you care enough to pose this question here, you really should be asking your boyfriend. He knows what he likes. On top of which, that can also give you a good gauge for what he'd be comfortable with.

Barring that, or if he's just not the "spice-it-up" type, Cosmo isn't a bad place to go for casual sex tips. Pick up a copy, or head online as was suggested above. They always have something, and I can tell you from experience that there is a decent amount of stuff that really is good.

Most importantly, you have to make sure sex doesn't become mechanics. While there is a biological science to manipulating the body, the emotion has to be there. Even if it's not "love," per se, the animal attraction and generosity of a lover go a long, LONG way.

Answer 3

If you want your own idea, you should try thinking of something that you always wanted to do, but never did. Menage' are classic, but you could take him to the strip club and tip the ladies and let him tip too, get you two a private dance. Or if that's not your scene, do your own strip tease to his favorite song; complete with blindfold, sexy outfit and make him sit on a chair, go all out. Really the only limitation are the ones you put on yourself. Also before doing any of this find out his fantasies, you could also take him somewhere unusual, in the woods,outside in the rain, in a parking garage, a park or on the hood of the car, and rock his world. I have a vivid imagination. Hope some of these suggestions are helpful. All the best.

Answer 4

If is an idea of your own, then why do you ask here? LOL

Just go online, and search around, you should know the internet biggest business is sex.

And then also go out to some porno stores and get some movies to get ideas, or buy some kinky toys there that I’m sure you will like and he will be melting when you show him you are into sex stuff.

And hopefully you know what kind of stuff he likes, so take advantage and surprise him some times. Lets say he likes to role play? Then show up one day dress with some sexy outfit you know he will like, and make sure you leave those clothes on when you have sex (make holes where necessary if you must). He will be in heaven and I’m sure he will also make sure you go there with him too… hehe

Good luck and have lots of fun!

Answer 5

Dress upp in something sexy and do a little striptease for him. Let him watch while you masturbate. Touch yourself all over and tell him how much you wish his hands were all over you right now but make sure they aren't though by tying him up first.

Then blindfold him and tease him with a feather, icecubes, hot wax (if his into that), different textures etc. You can drip chocolate syrup on him and lick it up. Even drip some on his member and clean it properly.

Give him bj but stop before he climax and start all over again. Tease him and make him beg for release. Then when he cant take it no more - jump him and give him the ride of his life.

Answer 6

It really depends on what you both like. There is no definite right or wrong answer.

Explore what you like first, but ot get you started...try being blindfolded and handcuffed to the bedpost in your underwear. Then he can feed you milk chocolate covered strawberries slowly, maybe run a small ice cube or a feather gently down your body.

If that doesn't work, wear revealing latex, tie your heair up and take out a whip.

Answer 7

That's great that you're open minded that will help you out a lot. My advice you is to think of all you fantasies no matter how slutty or weird they are and just do them. You only live once so enjoy it.

Even the things you might not want to do give it a shot you might like it.

Answer 8

Make other men want you when he is with you. Wear sexy and revealing clothes and tell him what you are going to do. He will be thrilled. Go somewhere and flirt with other men and as he sees that they want you, his passion will grow until it explodes. Ask him about the idea and give it a try. Go to a bar, wear a skirt so short that other men catch flashes of your panties, and let him see you doing this. When you get home that night you will both have sex you will never forget! Good luck with this!

Answer 9

Some guys like role playing, surprise him. Guys are very visually oriented. Costumes, a blond wig (if you are a brunet or visa versa). lots of choices here, look on the internet. But some women have been known to become jealous of the "other" woman in their role playing thing. I heard of a woman who surprised her hubby with a mini skirt and knee high socks. Her old boy nearly had a heart attack, or so he told me.

Answer 10

get some silk under wear and whips and make the bedroom small nice put rose round the room go Anne summers for dressing up things they show you sex books on how to spice up things go for leather things i get this mag every 2 week pabo go to Www. pabo .co.UK or it might be com they got lovey stuff for men and woman or there a hotal in holland where you can watch other people do it and you get to all differnt things

Answer 11

You should look at cosmo's website.. they have a section on sex and anything that has to do with it, like fantasies and oral and porn and all that... and they probably have some ideas that your b/f would love that you might not have thought about... but here's a link to it, and just browse around and see if you can find anything!

http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/topics/0,,4tgp,00.html