I think that most men are just intimidated and afraid of rejection. Those are things that they cannot handle really well I guess. I don't think I'm anything special but I clean up nicely and my friends and even my husband said that I can be intimidating. I really don't see it and honestly,if someone would approach me, I'd talk to them and let them know what my marital status is. I can hold a conversation just like any other person. I'll talk to anyone no matter who or what they are.
I think it's a stereotype that beautiful women are dumb, ignorant or conceited.
Before I met my husband, no one asked me out for about a year.Luckily, he did and now we're happily married.
I wish you the very best and don't give up hope!
2007-03-01 07:37:46
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answered by Bebe 2
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Sometimes, it depends on who the girl is. The reason it seems harder to approach a prettier girl is because there is usually more competition for her and she has her choice of guys.
If you genuinely have something for the girl then it probably about the same because your primary concern is that the girl of your dreams might reject you, and no matter how good-looking she is, that's bound to hurt.
If you are just going after a girl because she's pretty and you want a trophy then you are likely to be nervous because she might say no and then everyone will hear about it and laugh at you.
So think carefully of who she is and what your motives are for trying to date her.
And if it is casual talk it depends entirely on their personality. The problem is that most good-looking girls have been conditioned to think they are better than others, but hey, you get a lot of sour uglies too. Some pretty ones are hard to talk to and some aren't. That is, if you aren't ruled by hormones.
2007-03-01 07:39:13
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answered by Ice 3
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2016-05-14 16:22:39
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answered by ? 4
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Speaking from experience I say no. In my opinion a really beautiful girl is easier to approach. Here's why, most guys are probably thinking that she is either taken or has a boyfriend, so nobody will approach her. The reality is she may not be as un-approachable as you imagine, she may not even have a boyfriend so just go for it.
In short, what's the worse that can happen? Worst case scenario is that she says no/ or has a boyfriend, but its better to find out than to wonder what could have been. In reality she may be just as nervous as you are.
Lastly, speaking from experience, really beautiful women prefer that guy that isn't a super-jock or Mr. Popular, but rather the average guy that they wouldn't;t have given the time of day to in High School
2007-03-01 07:40:51
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answered by evil_paul 4
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For a lot of people it is. For example: I grew up as a handsome guy that was admired by many guys and girls, but I never approached girls they would approach me, however, I have been told by a lot of girls that they did not approach me because they were too scared and nervous. Many models say that they wish more guys would approach them, but men just stand around and stair, they also say that they have feelings and like men with confidence.
If you don't try then you will never know if she would of said yes.
2007-03-01 07:43:29
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answered by SuperDave 3
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you might think that the prettier girl is harder to approach, but the truth is... she's also a girl like any other girl... just more gifted physically speaking. and yes, she' s definitely able to hold a conversation. we're not stupid you know!
so go for it. you might be surprised... remember, looks don't necessarily influence the personality
2007-03-01 07:35:35
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answered by sea_star 5
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Yes because
attractive people tend to, but not always, gravitate towards other attractive people. Just as intellectual people or athletic people tend to seek familiar company, especially when dealing with a new situation. It's our nature, a primal survival mechanism.
Do you have anything in common with this girl so you could introduce yourself (I know that sounds stuffy, I mean something like; Hi, I see you like this band too, my name is....) on common ground? Take your time and pay attention to what she says, girls do not like to be rushed. The phrase; "it was meant to be", translates, in this situation, as; "we shared so much in common that we became friends." That's the best and strongest foundation for a future relationship.
P.S. Girls admire self-confidence in a guy; look the word up before you confuse it with conceit or aggression. Best regards to you.
2007-03-01 08:06:30
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answered by gugenheim84 4
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Yes, they are and often they are very lonely because of it. I dated a very gorgeous girl in H.S. and when we got to know each other better she told me that she never got asked out. I said I didn't get it. She was beautiful and she should have been swamped with guys. Her response to me was that everyone thinks that and then just doesn't ask because they don't want to get rejected. In the meantime, the girl sits at home wondering what's wrong with her.
2007-03-01 07:37:34
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answered by Alchemist 4
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Of course she can, but I have learned that beautiful women are a lot pickier about who they talk to. If a man is less than 4 stars, a lot of beautiful women will shut him out even for saying hello. This is true. Hot women are meaner than hot men. Guys will at least chat and be nice. Women are damn selective.
2007-03-01 07:35:52
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answered by Year of the Monkey 5
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well that is what every other girl wants to know as well what is wrong with all the not so pretty gals we are just the same as everyone else some times the not so pretty ones make the better g/fs any way
2007-03-01 07:33:53
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answered by Cassie C 2
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