My inlaws wrote several bad checks on the account iopened forthem. me and my husband had to pay for all of them. we stillhaveto pay $1000.00. Do you think i have the right to be mad at them? I really don't even want togo around them because of this, but my husband getsmad at me. what should i do?
2007-03-01 07:28:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have ever right to be mad at them!! They do not respect you are your husband. If they did they they wouldn't have done that to you. are at least help pay for the bad checks. Your husband shouldn't make you go over there to see them after what they done to you. He should let you go back over when and only when you want to go back and face them.
2007-03-01 07:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close the account and don't loan them any money. You can also separated your accounts from your husband so he can't use your paycheck to pay back the money.
Honey, I'd have left him by now. They're just using you. If he isn't willing to see that, then he's not worth keeping. But that's my opinion, and you can take it or leave it.
My response to his wanting me to open an account for his parents would have been a firm no.
2007-03-01 15:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by nokhada5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't your in-laws would you be angry - this is the question you need to ask your husband. It doesn't matter what or if any relation you had with them. What matters is the fact that they abused the trust of the relationship. Writing bad checks is against the law and sadly you had to pay the penalty for it. YES you definitely should be mad!!!!!
2007-03-01 17:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u have the right to be mad.did they understand the terms of the account?if it was opened for them they should have to deal with the overdrafts and unpaid bills not u. tell u're husband to get over it.it isnt fair to u to have to pay their bills especially if u work.if u and u'r husband have joint account tell him to withdraw or transfer an amount of HIS contribution to fix the problem b/c u dont feel like u should have to give u'r money b'c u dont agree that it should be up to u & him to fix it!!!!if u dont feel like being in their company simply explain that u would rather skip the next affair than have a sceen.
2007-03-01 15:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your husband and his parents to inform them that you are not a bank. If they needed a loan, they should have gone to one. You have a right to be upset and you have the right to get your money back. You need to decide if your marriage is worth the money they stole. Thank you and good luck.
2007-03-01 15:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fraud...you have to make the decision either to get over it and be part of your husband and his family life, or you must leave him and charge them....a decision is important or it will haunt you forever.
2007-03-01 15:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by basport_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth, be truthfull and say it in a very nice way, sure he will understand and agree with you.
2007-03-01 15:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your entitled to feel however you feel. Tell your hubby to cover the fees on his own since his parents messed it up and he doesnt want you to be mad about it. Geesh.
2007-03-01 15:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋