i don't know if i still like my bf. i think i see us way better as friends, but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know why. i feel like i might be using him just to say i have a bf but i can't tell. its really hard. what should i doo?
2007-03-01 07:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by Brianna T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him now before you hurt him any further. You know yourself you don't care for him romanitcally. I once agreed to date a guy friend who liked me, I never felt that way towards him. I broke up w/ him after a couple of weeks.
2007-03-01 07:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by cotton~candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate your true feelings to your bf.
I always live by the motto, ' Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.'
Would you want him to just have you hanging around to say that he has a gf. Something at home.
Don't use him, try to make it work and if it doesn't call it off and move on.
2007-03-01 15:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't be that hard, honey. tell him how you feel. if u see y'all better as friends say something before it gets to the point where you can't go back to being normal friends. don't use him just to say u have a boyfriend 'cos it's possible to get over anybody. so u just do what's right.
2007-03-01 15:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by mrsmcfarland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should lead him on if you are not sure how you feel. I think you should talk to him about this. He has the right to know how you feel. Let him have the chance to get out of the relationship before he gets hurt.
2007-03-01 15:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front and date someone else and see how it fits. Decide whether or not you miss your now-bf as a bf and you have your answer.
2007-03-01 15:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him get rid of him, because there might actually be someone out there who wants him. And if your still dating him and dont like him like that then you are using him and thats not right.
2007-03-01 15:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you are using him. Why ask... Call it off. You will NEVER be just friends. Walk away and cut your losses.
2007-03-01 15:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by T B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem will only get worse the longer you put it off.
2007-03-01 15:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and remaine FRIENDS.
2007-03-01 15:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Papi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should break up with him... its not good to use people for any reason.
2007-03-01 15:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋