Guys- At what amount of sexual conquests does a girl become non long term material?

Question

I think the question isn't phrased properly....What i mean is if a guy asks the girl how many people she has slept with and she is being honest then at what amount do guys baulk? (think thats the spelling)

Not sure where the comments on me being shallow come from but as i newly single person without STD's, i'm starting to think i should reveal nothing a bout my past.

Answer 1

Wait rephrase that question?

Answer 2

I think what you mean is how many guys does a girl have to be with before you can call her a ****? Well that question can only be answered by you. I personally don't care how many people a man has been with it's all about what he does now with me as his girlfriend. If she is a good person and someone you want to be with then go for it. I honestly can't count how many men I have been with but I an always faithfully when in a relationship so my sexual history should not matter.

Answer 3

Do women still think like this? Ever hear of the sexual revolution?

Honey - you own your sexuality. If you want to play around then do so, safely. If any guy is going to get hung up on who went before or how many then he's not worth it. I don't remember my partner ever asking - there have been more than a few - but I would say 8 faithful years together is reasonably 'long-term'.

Secure guys don't care - insecure ones you don't want anyway!

Answer 4

I don't believe you asked this question. DO you really judge everyone by your own very low standards? There are some very sensitive girls out there who may be offended by your question. Personally I don't give a damn, who would want a long term partner as shallow as you anyway!!
P.S for starryeyes, it was Andi Mc Dowell!!!

Answer 5

From a female perspective it all depends on the guys state of mind - he could fancy the pants of you but still see you as nothing more than a s**g pal!
You become long term material if and when he is ready for it.

Answer 6

I suppose it varies - for me, for instance, it would be not only irrelevant, but none of my business. On the other hand, someone clinging to out-of-date ideas about gender roles and "appropriate" behavior might write someone off if they've had any experience whatsoever.

My advice - don't worry about it, and if someone gives you a hassle about your "history," run the other way.

Answer 7

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Not sure I understand the question, but here's my answer.

You want a LTR? Make him wait for the intimacy.

If a women was ready to hop into the sack with me before she knew me, I dropped her.

Nice guys are looking for nice girls. You can't have an LTR that is built on sex. LTR's have to be built on friendship.

If he really likes you, he'll wait. If he respects you, he'll respect you more. If he's a manslut just trying to get some action from you, he'll give up if he sees it will be too much work...

Good luck.

A~

Answer 8

That depends on the guy. Everyone can do bad things or things they are not proud of and change for a better person. No one should be judged for their past unless they continue to live that way :-)

Answer 9

After 10. I'd be friends, good friends if we clicked, but I don't think a 'player' would ever be satisfied in settling down. Same for guys.

Answer 10

Check out Four Weddings and a Funeral.
And 34 was...
but 36 was better...
Mini Driver kicked butt.

Answer 11

When you hear at least 7 different people mention a seperate past boyfriend of her's. Then she's damaged goods and quiet clearly unable to keep her knickers above her knees.